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re: Relationship Topic: Moving On From A Woman

Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
Posted by dukee7
Louisiana
Member since May 2019
2270 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
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I still have occasional dreams where we are together, in a relationship, cuddling, kissing




Damn dude you’re soft as hell. No woman likes a feminine arse dude. Unless you have a lot of $
Posted by NOLA4LIFE83
Member since Aug 2019
84 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
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Bruh...you went on two dates and she was honest with you and didn't lead you on. What is there to move on from? There was no meant to be. You cant expect to be every girls cup of tea. Just because you want her doesnt mean she wants you. Most guys learn this in their teens/20s



I understand that, it's just being friends with her I can see where we would be good together. It amazes me that she can't see it too.

I'm not saying I believe in love at first site, but I definitely felt more towards her after two dates than I have with almost any other woman. It just really took me by surprise because she seemed like she felt it as well. Then suddenly the bomb shell of "I just want to be friends".

It's never been easy for me to connect with women and get a woman interested in me so I get optimistic when it seems to click. I'm not a 9 or 10 guy who can go out and have women be all over him. That's what has made it hard.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171114 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:23 pm to
You've come on way too strong with this alter.
Posted by cgrand
HAMMOND
Member since Oct 2009
39068 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:24 pm to
is this what society has done to the red blooded American male?
for fricks sake dude snap out of it go chase some tail
Posted by eScott
Member since Oct 2008
11376 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:24 pm to
Carve her name in your leg, chicks love that.
Posted by Francisco de Chicora
The Delaware Coast
Member since Aug 2019
166 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:25 pm to
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I took her up on her offer to still be friends.



Never do this.
Posted by NOLA4LIFE83
Member since Aug 2019
84 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:25 pm to
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What’s your dating history before this girl? Very important info if you want a real answer


Not great, some dates here and there. Two short term relationships in college. Nothing has ever gotten serious. I wasn't good at interacting with women in college. I'm better now but definitely still nothing like a player. I guess it was hard because she's one of the only women (there were a few others, some of them were already in relationships so obviously didn't pursue those) that I really felt a connection with.
Posted by NOLA4LIFE83
Member since Aug 2019
84 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:26 pm to
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Or she’s a lesbian from a very close knit catholic family and dates men as a guise to appease her family.


If she's a lesbian she is probably the best lesbian ever at hiding it. Nothing about her says lesbian at all.
Posted by TT9
Global warming
Member since Sep 2008
82952 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:27 pm to
Didn't read but in today's times social media has made these sluts even worse.

Just stay single and not worry about the pieces of shite.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
67302 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:27 pm to
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Oh come on, that's not long at all.



TWSS
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:27 pm to
She played your little game till she found out you weren't loaded.

Accept it and move on.
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:28 pm to
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I understand that, it's just being friends with her I can see where we would be good together. It amazes me that she can't see it too.


Life will get a lot easier for you when you give up on understanding a women's motivation for something. It doesnt matter why she doesnt want to be with you. She doesnt want to be with you. It sounds harsh but you need to come to terms with that to move forward. Unless she has two pussies she isnt anything special. There are plenty of women out there.
This post was edited on 8/26/19 at 7:30 pm
Posted by NOLA4LIFE83
Member since Aug 2019
84 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:29 pm to
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is this what society has done to the red blooded American male?
for fricks sake dude snap out of it go chase some tail


If you want me to be completely honest about this I would love to do just that. But honestly I really don't know how. Growing up my dad was more incompetent with women than I am and I just never really had that wing man to show me the ropes. That's probably a big reason why I am in this position in the first place.

I think what's also frustrating is that I don't know what I did wrong. I thought I did all the right things and when I asked her about it she said "no you didn't do anything wrong, you're a great guy, I just didn't feel anything". Now of course that's being nice but obviously I did something wrong.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82093 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:30 pm to
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Oh come on, that's not long at all.
is that why she's moving on?
Posted by Marco Esquandolas
Member since Jul 2013
11440 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:30 pm to
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I still have occasional dreams where we are together, in a relationship, cuddling, kissing...



Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171114 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:31 pm to
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I still have occasional dreams where we are together, in a relationship, cuddling, kissing


I will give you props if this was supposed to be connected to your lucid dreaming thread.
Posted by hombreman9
USA
Member since Feb 2009
3781 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:31 pm to
Incels fricking depress me. The lack of self esteem and the way of thinking. Jesus, just kill me.
Posted by jrowla2
Colorado
Member since Jan 2007
4086 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:32 pm to
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NOLA4LIFE83


Im dealing with a similar thing and while I'm still not completely over it, I think you just have to move on, knowing that it's done. Distract yourself with hobbies and other stuff going on and keep looking for other fish. There is no point in worrying about could have been. Move on. I promise you there are other women out there.
Posted by NOLA4LIFE83
Member since Aug 2019
84 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:32 pm to
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I will give you props if this was supposed to be connected to your lucid dreaming thread.


Not directly but I have had dreams where we, well, doing more than cuddling and kissing. That's why I said my dreams are better than me reality, at least at the moment.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30484 posts
Posted on 8/26/19 at 7:32 pm to
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I think what's also frustrating is that I don't know what I did wrong. I thought I did all the right things and when I asked her about it she said "no you didn't do anything wrong, you're a great guy, I just didn't feel anything". Now of course that's being nice but obviously I did something wrong.



Not necessarily. I’m sure you know women that you wouldn’t date even if they did everything “right”.

You need some testosterone
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