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re: A Thread for Single Men (nofap, "red pill", female games, etc.)

Posted on 4/7/18 at 4:02 am to
Posted by PeteRose
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Posted on 4/7/18 at 4:02 am to
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I've even heard him talk about the idea of women not even being capable of actually loving a man


That’s a bit extreme. I think he was referring to how women generallly by default want better end of the deal in mate selection. Women want mate who’s has more resources, status, better genetics(good looking). By getting all 3, they can produce healthier better looking offsprings while having resources to take care of her and the offsprings.

So with that, men are basically walking utilities to women. So if you don’t have any of those big 3(looks, money, status), women in general won’t give you the time.

This basically comes from reproductive fact that sperm is cheap. If you have 1 guy and 100 women in a tribe, he can knock them all up. If you have 100 guys and 1 woman, you can only reproduce 1 offspring at a time. So in a tribe of 50 men and 50 women, the men has to bring something extra to the table (the big 3) in order to qualify themselves as a potential mate since sperms are plentyful. This is why men compete. It’s so they can climb the dominate hierarchy. The higher they are, the more likely that women will choose them. That’s why more women are able to reproduce than men. It’s a fascinating topic.
This post was edited on 4/7/18 at 4:03 am
Posted by inadaze
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Posted on 4/7/18 at 5:17 am to
I agree. I think it's a fascinating topic.

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He literally says it in this video. I wouldn't say it like he says it, but I have noticed it a lot anecdotally. It seems to me to be apt as a general statement, but the range of experience/feeling is vast. I don't think it applies in all cases.

What I was getting at with the biological basis gets into what you mentioned on resources, genetics, status. Women generally need to be taken care of more for biological reasons (pregnancy, they're generally not as strong as men physically, etc.), so if you clear away expectations and cultural ideas of "love" generally associated with women, it actually seems biologically reasonable for women to be on the lookout for a better deal. Even if they just do it subconsciously, while valuing loyalty consciously. This biological reasoning would also seem to explain why many women like the kind of sex they do.

For these biological reasons, it seems to make sense that men would have a greater ability for "love" of a woman (for the actual person as opposed to opportunistic love).
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