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re: How would you handle? (Ex-GF) long...
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:49 pm to Azranod
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:49 pm to Azranod
A few things to update:
1. NOT a lesbian. Male / Females can enter into domestic partner agreements as well. Many companies offer benefits to committed couples who do not want to get married. Originally, it was designed for gay couples.
2. Although there is a possibility the brain tumor is not real, if it is not, she has done a HELL of a job faking it for two years. My guess is that its benign and therefore, not growing.
3. I struggled with letting her go because I did not want to put her on the street. Our relationship was really over almost a year ago. We've basically been roommates until I moved.
4. Her organized crime ties are not necessarily to mafia types, and I have not confirmed.
5. The poster that said she had BPD was on point. Diagnosed for sure, but I didn't realize how bad it was. She also is a self proclaimed sociopath.
Thanks again for all of the advice. Again, this was not a troll attempt. I've been reading this board for years and always laugh at some of the advice given. I expected much of this.
After another big fight this morning, I've taken steps today to rid her of my life.
1. NOT a lesbian. Male / Females can enter into domestic partner agreements as well. Many companies offer benefits to committed couples who do not want to get married. Originally, it was designed for gay couples.
2. Although there is a possibility the brain tumor is not real, if it is not, she has done a HELL of a job faking it for two years. My guess is that its benign and therefore, not growing.
3. I struggled with letting her go because I did not want to put her on the street. Our relationship was really over almost a year ago. We've basically been roommates until I moved.
4. Her organized crime ties are not necessarily to mafia types, and I have not confirmed.
5. The poster that said she had BPD was on point. Diagnosed for sure, but I didn't realize how bad it was. She also is a self proclaimed sociopath.
Thanks again for all of the advice. Again, this was not a troll attempt. I've been reading this board for years and always laugh at some of the advice given. I expected much of this.
After another big fight this morning, I've taken steps today to rid her of my life.
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Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:50 pm to DFWTiger80
This post was edited on 2/21/18 at 2:51 pm
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:50 pm to DFWTiger80
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DFWTiger80
this thread pretty much answers all of trillhog's question.
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:52 pm to DFWTiger80
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After another big fight this morning
LMAO
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:53 pm to DFWTiger80
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NOT a lesbian.
Lesbian, or a really pathetic schmuck.
Unless you plan on one day hanging out with people from this site in real life(which I doubt since you're a long time lurker) you should just let everyone believe you're a lesbian.
This post was edited on 2/21/18 at 2:55 pm
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:56 pm to DFWTiger80
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Although there is a possibility the brain tumor is not real
Start telling yourself it is NOT REAL. It doesn't matter if it is or not at this point; she is not your responsibility. And she never was. I know you feel responsible for her, but it's time to try very hard to cut the guilt you feel. Borderline people will say and do anything to get what they want, especially when it comes to the threat of abandonment. Arguing with her is 100% pointless, as you know. So is trying to reason with her.
Posted on 2/21/18 at 3:37 pm to DFWTiger80
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After another big fight this morning, I've taken steps today to rid her of my life.
Don't kill yourself dummy!
Posted on 2/21/18 at 9:38 pm to DFWTiger80
She pegs you doesn't she?
Posted on 2/22/18 at 1:34 am to DFWTiger80
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The poster that said she had BPD was on point. Diagnosed for sure, but I didn't realize how bad it was
If it is BPD, then make sure you video or voice record every interaction you have with her. Anytime she is around you, you MUST record everything. I'm divorced from a woman that has BPD and won full custody of my three little kids by doing just this...and it still wasn't easy.
The reason is that most women with BPD use a defensive mechanism called "Self Victimization"...look it up. She will try to turn everyone, including your friends and the police, against you. Everyone will think you're the crazy one when she gets done with her act...and she'll get away with it because she's a woman and the police want to believe women. The only way you'll get through this unscathed is if you film/document everything.
Everytime she called the police and accused me of something, I would show the police the video and nothing would happen. But this went on for months until I was able to present all the evidence of how crazy she is to the judge and he granted me full custodial rights of my kids. But it was hard because she was crying and lying all the time...making false accusations and trying to get me arrested so that she didn't look like the bad guy.
You can win this, but it's going to be a fight that you might at times think you can't win and may also at times leave you feeling like you're the crazy one, but stick with it. Don't worry about the tumor or the mafia, if she has BPD then those are all lies. The only way she'll leave you alone is if she feels that you have enough damaging information and are willing to share it with her friends and family. She doesn't want to be found out as a crazy person and will do anything to avoid this...so that is your chance to get away from her. Good luck!
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