I'm sorry things turned out badly for you, I really am. I can only imagine the hurt and betrayal you must be feeling. But you fully intended to be faithful to your wife. God sees that.

Don't give up. Consider this. Out there is a woman who has undergone the same betrayal as you and is just as lonely as you. Look to some, my advice may seem unrealistic, but I do believe in the power of prayer. I do believe that love can happen (again) at any age no matter the brokenness of the individual.

I have a close friend who went through a bitter divorce. He's now a deacon in our Church. Trust me, he was so devastated by the experience. But he stayed active in his Church, prayed and now he's married to an absolutely wonderful woman.

There are some awfully nice, wonderful and decent women who would love to meet a good man like you.

Keep the faith and pray.

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Posted by fr33manator

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Posted on 10/2/17 at 2:27 pm to GeorgePaton

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Out there is a woman who has undergone the same betrayal as you and is just as lonely as you

I mean...I'm not that lonely. I have women who I can call on for company. I just broke up with one I loved and cared for deeply because there wasn't long term viability for where I wanted my life to go (more kids).

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There are some awfully nice, wonderful and decent women who would love to meet a good man like you.

I'm incorrigible. Just a rascal and a rapscallion. I've got the wanderlust. I don't know if I'm even the settling down forever type.
Besides, I've got kids. Who is gonna want to start a real relationship with someone who already has kids that aren't their own?

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