re: Let's discuss single moms: Father's Day edition (update Page 5)

this is a problem that i would always run into. Because as much shite as I get on this site, I really have my shite together IRL, got my own house, own my own business, go to church every sunday, was raised right, and single mom's see me and they lock on like a heat seeking missle. I can't / couldn't do flings with single mom's because they saw me as daddy material. I still have a okcupid account and the last time i had checked it i had like 22 messages and every last one of them were from single moms or "prefer not to say"

And I mean I was raised by a single mom and I have the utmost respect for my mother but I always told myself 1. i'm not rewarding you for being a whore by coming in and cleaning up your mess or because you decided to fall out of love with the guy you shacked up with when you were 22 where the frick where you when I was 22 years old busting my arse and 2. I just had my first child 2 months ago and it wasn't fair to me to raise another child before i raised my own. The money I save for my child's education is not going to your child it's going to mine.


There were a few girls that I really liked, they just had kids and i couldn't take them seriously one in particular i would have married honestly but i stuck to my guns and lo and behind eventually one came along with no kids that had the same mindset as myself.



I mean, women on their own are bad enough / enough drama. when you frick a single mom all her problems become your problems.