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I'm dating someone now but it seems to me the older I get the more success I have with women.

And dating/sleeping with someone much younger has never been easier.

a lot of that is just internal competency

aside from good looks, the way to project value is to actually have value to project. professional guys who have their shite together and have developed a sense of mastery in their professional and personal life tend to project that without trying. they often will also not be boring and have interests/hobbies that make them interesting and that's the 3rd biggest factor

there are a lot of studies out there regarding happiness and it's not "finding the job you love" as much as "becoming great in what you do and working to get better at things". when you reach that level, you just project an unspoken confidence and value

this is the exact opposite of the Roosh-ists, who feel they're so inadequate in certain areas that their focus becomes on becoming competent in getting slight edges in manipulating others on a surface level

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Posted by goldennugget

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Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:22 am to SlowFlowPro

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this is the exact opposite of the Roosh-ists, who feel they're so inadequate in certain areas that their focus becomes on becoming competent in getting slight edges in manipulating others on a surface level

Which is why I oppose PUA and Roosh.

They don't preach self improvement. They instead preach lying, manipulating and creating a fake persona of yourself.

Why do all of that when you can instead put in the work, discipline and effort to actually improve yourself into a man that has value and his shite together, so you don't need to lie and manipulate.

PUA is simply an unsustainable shortcut.

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Posted by rocket31

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Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:24 am to SlowFlowPro

I get your side and mostly agree

But the alternative sexual strategy states that the only thing that matters is the continuation our our species, everything in between is just societal bullshite.

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Posted by NIH

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Posted on 2/19/17 at 11:26 am to SlowFlowPro

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. they often will also not be boring and have interests/hobbies that make them interesting and that's the 3rd biggest factor

this is huge

Women hate complacency. Guys who get fat during marriage, drink Bud Light before the TV every night, don't have hobbies outside of hunting, and only vacation in the same spot are ripe for trouble

Which is a large % in this state