This. I find myself bouncing girl to girl and bed to bed and really can't figure out why I can't feel a connection. Other people make it look easy, but I'm always bailing. It always seems like the girl is all in, and I'm uncertain. Case in point, Valentine's Day is coming up, and of course my lady friend has made it known it's absolutely her favorite day of the year. I, on the other hand, feel a sense of dread and impending doom.

Prayers appreciated.

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Posted by HempHead

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Posted on 2/5/17 at 1:19 pm to Blob Fish

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I find myself bouncing girl to girl and bed to bed and really can't figure out why I can't feel a connection.

If I'm going to get real™ here, I think it was growing up and watching my folks split up. Developed a real fear and suspicion towards relationships because I didn't want to have to go through the same thing.

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Posted by thegreatboudini

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Posted on 2/6/17 at 6:12 am to Blob Fish

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I find myself bouncing girl to girl and bed to bed and really can't figure out why I can't feel a connection. Other people make it look easy, but I'm always bailing. It always seems like the girl is all in, and I'm uncertain. Case in point, Valentine's Day is coming up, and of course my lady friend has made it known it's absolutely her favorite day of the year. I, on the other hand, feel a sense of dread and impending doom.

Thank you baby Jesus. shite like this is literally the only thing that has ever given me anxiety.

I have friends and family that tell me everyone I'm going to have to date soon will either be divorced and/or have a kid. I disagree, because in the last 12 months none of them have been over 24.

I tell myself I should slow it down soon, but I really don't care to. Maybe in 2019.

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