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Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:08 am to rintintin
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:08 am to rintintin
Anyways, thanks for adding another woman to the trashy dating cites the rest of us have to sort through. She's now past the point of trainable for anyone else, as you've held onto her for 4 years. So she will now stick to her ways which are not going to work for any of the rest of us either. Great job!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:08 am to rintintin
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people get into routines.
Unless you have kids, it just sounds like y'alls relationship was just boring.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:08 am to mizzoukills
How does being introverted with commitment issues equal bipolar and insecure again?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:08 am to meauxjeaux2
Well in that case baw have an upvote! LOL
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:09 am to Steadyhands
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maybe something to do with being bipolar? You seem to be the expert on this though.
Actually I am. And I bet several people in this thread can identify with what I posted.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:09 am to rintintin
I've seen these scenarios play out a thousand times. Within a year one or both of you will be married.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:09 am to 19
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Man, don't you dare feel guilty about this...you're living a lie right now and that is what you feel guilty about. Set her free if you know she's not the one it's the right thing to do.
And don't think stupid like if you pass on her you won't ever meet THE one, cuz you will...life doesn't work that way, it's all about TIMING. I did the exact thing for the exact reasons years ago...she is an atty now and happily married.
I did her a solid cuz I DID care about her...she just wasn't the one.
You are doing the right thing, she sounds like she deserves someone who will treat her like a princess. Let her go find him while you live your life.
Precisely.
I know I'm doing the right thing.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:10 am to 50_Tiger
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Hahahah 19 you fricked up! Attorney? lol bet you wish you really had that one back!
Yea right, who wants a wife they can never lie to
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:11 am to rintintin
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Precisely.
I know I'm doing the right thing.
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I'd pack a bag and get important shite out of the shared domicile beforehand. And park my car a couple streets over. Also, put on good running shoes.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:11 am to rintintin
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And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
Sounds like you are ready for marriage boss.
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I kid, I kid.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:12 am to rintintin
This thread has probably canceled out every downvote mizzoukillz has ever got. I'm about to play the powerball.
Rintintin, you are doing the right thing. I won't go on any further than this, but just know if you marry this girl you will feel more trapped than you do now. You should feel good that you have the confidence to do what is necessary.
Rintintin, you are doing the right thing. I won't go on any further than this, but just know if you marry this girl you will feel more trapped than you do now. You should feel good that you have the confidence to do what is necessary.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 9:24 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:13 am to 13SaintTiger
Are you Barney Stinson ?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:13 am to mizzoukills
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Why? WTF? You just described a damn near perfect girl. Lemme guess...you think the grass is greener in the other pasture, right? You wanna frick other women? I hope you realize that fricking strangers, while fun at first, will get old fast and you'll sit around longing for the companionship you once had with this girl. If she's as pretty and great as you make her out to be, you'll be crawling back to her in 6 months. Think your depression is bad now, just wait when you're begging her to take you back and she refuses because she's moved on to more mature men. God help you
Yep. Every. Single. Word.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:14 am to rintintin
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Good question, I guess because I didn't want to hurt her.
And people get into routines. After a while you just go along with it. I know many people do the same thing, most just won't admit it.
You're right about this. Now going forward you'll either be happy and move on just fine, if your lucky, or you'll be miserable even more so and realize you really did have a good thing....oh, and of course if the later of the two is true, she wont take you back. That's just how it works.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:14 am to ThatMakesSense
I mean its pretty clear rintintin's woman well soon to be ex woman put all her eggs into his basket. As she should with 4 years invested.
No matter how you go about this, this won't go over nice at all. In fact, I hope you are mentally prepared to be an even bigger douche than you already are because you are about to embark down shite highway straight to shitville to get rid of her. I dont think ive ever known any woman to just willing go into the night after 4 years unless you were slapping her the frick around or banging her best friend.
No matter how you go about this, this won't go over nice at all. In fact, I hope you are mentally prepared to be an even bigger douche than you already are because you are about to embark down shite highway straight to shitville to get rid of her. I dont think ive ever known any woman to just willing go into the night after 4 years unless you were slapping her the frick around or banging her best friend.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:14 am to Mr. Hangover
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Dude if you think every marriage is a lifelong Hallmark holiday movie just give up... the 'perfect' relationship is a myth... but it sounds like the biggest problem with you two is communication.. you are either relaying your emotions incorrectly or not at all...
don't marry a woman, don't be gay, just be your miserable introverted self the rest of your life cause the fairytale shite ain't happening
It's funny seeing replies like this, which insinuate you have to either deal with being unhappy with a broken relationship, or be gay, miserable, and lonely
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I think most who are saying this feel the same why I do, they just didn't have the courage to make a change.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:15 am to rintintin
You sound like one of those guys who will bitch and be miserable no matter what you do or don't do. But I assume you're a grown man. Do whatever you think is right.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:16 am to 50_Tiger
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I dont think ive ever known any woman to just willing go into the night after 4 years unless you were slapping her the frick around or banging her best friend.
Oh I don't expect this at all, which is why it'll be so hard.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:16 am to 50_Tiger
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This thread is fascinating.
You have the late 20' early 30's crowd calling him an idiot.
You have the folks his age calling him gay.
Then you have the non believers not willing to acknowledge their frick up by trying to tell him its all good.
Fascinating indeed.
lol, yep, kind of reveals where everyone is at in this exact same process op is going through. Some in denial, some in regret, and some that have finally found happiness and moved on...etc.
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