re: Question about popping the question

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Move in together. Have a 6 month trial marriage.

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I COMPLETELY agree with this. Its amazing how much you learn about each other once you move in together.

My mon was against the idea of being unmarried and living together but my wife and I did and it worked out great. My brother got married to who we thought was a normal nice girl and they were divorced 6 months later because she became a psycho once they were married. My mom told me about a year later that she never wouldve thought she would recommend moving in together before marriage but that really opened her eyes.

If you are feeling like you arent ready, then you should talk to your gf about this. Just be honest with her and she will appreciate you more for your honesty. One of the major keys to any marriage is communication. If you cant do it well now before marriage you will be in for a rough time once you get married.

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Move in together. Have a 6 month trial marriage.

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6 Months isn't long enough. People can fake it or suppress their true feeling for 6 months. Minimum a year