re: Who here raised F'ed up children?

I have a nephew who has turned into a complete cluster frick. Does that count? He is 22 years old. He got married about two years ago, had a kid. He got a decent job working on a boat, the first day he had to work out of town he "got sick" had to get the helicopter to bring him inland.. He went home and quit. He worked a few construction jobs he didn't stay at long. He got on with another barge company, failed a drug test. He is now a busboy, his wife is going to "beauty school" and is one dumb fricking human being.

She puts every moment of their life on facebook. Most of the time it involves them fighting. One day she complains because her inlaws have her kid and the next day she complains that she needs her kid to go to her inlaws so she can have "me" time.

My sister pretty much kept both of her kids in a bubble. My niece is a lot more independent than my nephew, but both have separation problems when it comes from being away from their mom a long time.. My nephew bought a lot on side of my sister, but a trailer on it, but is at his parents more than his own home.