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re: Having a birthday party every year for a dead baby

Posted on 9/11/15 at 10:09 am to
Posted by Darla Hood
Near that place by that other place
Member since Aug 2012
14107 posts
Posted on 9/11/15 at 10:09 am to
He was sick for about three weeks and I brought him to the doctor six different times. Fever of unknown origin was pretty much it, until the third week, was finally diagnosed with a raging ear infection. Doctor considered hospitalizing him, but decided to give him antibiotic shots, instead. One on Monday morning, Monday night, Tuesday morning. He was better by Tuesday night, so he was cleared to go to the sitter and I went to work on Wednesday morning. Last time I saw him as a normal baby, he was laughing and smiling as I handed him to the sitter. Got a call at work at 11:00 am saying he was on his way to Lafayette General. Probably suffered a seizure, not sure, but he stopped breathing. Sitter's husband did CPR and he was bagged all the way to the hospital. Comatose for three weeks, but had suffered profound brain damage. Functioned like a newborn for the rest of his life. Also, cortically blind, which means he couldn't process anything visually.

Many, many what ifs. What if I'd stayed home? What if the doctor had hospitalized him? Etc.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84204 posts
Posted on 9/11/15 at 10:12 am to
I'm so sorry. Reading that felt like a punch to the gut.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 9/11/15 at 10:14 am to
Omg that is heart breaking
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
67280 posts
Posted on 9/11/15 at 10:16 am to
I can't imagine what you've been through and live with. My thoughts go out to you.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
55504 posts
Posted on 9/11/15 at 10:16 am to
Wow. Sorry Darla for the pain you have gone thru and the lost of your son. I judge no one, nothing in this life we were prepared for as children. You live each day, happy or sad,and when that happiness comes along enjoy it.
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
12996 posts
Posted on 9/11/15 at 10:19 am to
Wow. We pray for the repose of his soul, even though he died with his innocence intact.
Posted by Kracka
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Aug 2004
41072 posts
Posted on 9/11/15 at 11:26 am to
quote:

He was sick for about three weeks and I brought him to the doctor six different times. Fever of unknown origin was pretty much it, until the third week, was finally diagnosed with a raging ear infection. Doctor considered hospitalizing him, but decided to give him antibiotic shots, instead. One on Monday morning, Monday night, Tuesday morning. He was better by Tuesday night, so he was cleared to go to the sitter and I went to work on Wednesday morning. Last time I saw him as a normal baby, he was laughing and smiling as I handed him to the sitter. Got a call at work at 11:00 am saying he was on his way to Lafayette General. Probably suffered a seizure, not sure, but he stopped breathing. Sitter's husband did CPR and he was bagged all the way to the hospital. Comatose for three weeks, but had suffered profound brain damage. Functioned like a newborn for the rest of his life. Also, cortically blind, which means he couldn't process anything visually.

Many, many what ifs. What if I'd stayed home? What if the doctor had hospitalized him? Etc.


frick, I need a drink after reading this......
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