re: LN "Tinder" ST, not LNST...

I've got too much other stuff to worry about to go around chasing pussy.

Just recently had a lady tell me that one of the most attractive things about me was that I'm completely and unapologetically me. I pull no punches. I'm honest and blunt without being immovable. I am what I am and I own it.

It was a phenomenal complement. I'm finally to the point where I am good with myself. (Well, mentally at least. This beer gut needs to go.)

I've got a good job I'm good at. I've got enough bachelor time that I can do what I want. I've got an impressive, extensive bar offering for any palate. I can cook like a champ. I make them laugh and yet I can have a very deep and cerebral discussion. And I know what the frick I'm doing in the bedroom.

She told me that was a huge turn-on and very different. Because I'm a laid back guy. Very chill. Very relaxed, anything goes.

But when I close that door I take over.

I guess they like that.