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re: Girlfriend has gay friend

Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:47 pm to
Posted by John Doe
NOLA
Member since Feb 2007
1949 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:47 pm to
You should meet him. If you don't, your insecurities will dream up all sorts of scenarios.
Posted by td01241
Savannah
Member since Nov 2012
23222 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:47 pm to
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Maybe I'm too conservative.



Sounds like it. Don't listen to this retard OleWar he is clinging to times past that aren't relevant in todays world that recognizes basic human rights.
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112485 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:47 pm to
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And girls like to "experiment".


Plus they can "man hate" like no other. Add in a couple bottles of wine after a big fight and poof....


Gay best friend however completely betrays the girls trust if he comes out as not gay and is dead in the water there
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:47 pm to
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No. It is the norm. If your girlfriend is going to accept people with deviant sexual practices, then she may want to behave or participate in deviant sexual practices as well. Several of the deviants have already illustrated the deviant positives that could result. So unless you are a deviant, your thought process is normal.


:kern:
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16227 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:47 pm to
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Again I'm confident nothing would happen just don't like the perception.


What's the "perception"? A woman hanging out with a gay dude? That's actually fairly common.
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13531 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:48 pm to
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So if you were married and your wife is out with another man do you not think that looks bad.


Well you left out the gay part here which is a pretty big deal in these scenarios
Posted by Tigerwaffe
Orlando
Member since Sep 2007
4975 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:50 pm to
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Trust is a wonderful thing in a relationship. Sorry yours lacks it.

Moreover, trust is necessary, mandatory, obligatory--choose your words--for a relationship to succeed. No confidence in your partner, no relationship.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47608 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:50 pm to
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No. It is the norm. If your girlfriend is going to accept people with deviant sexual practices, then she may want to behave or participate in deviant sexual practices as well. Several of the deviants have already illustrated the deviant positives that could result. So unless you are a deviant, your thought process is normal.

Holy shite balls. I hope this is a troll attempt. Otherwise you are this dude all the way.


Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:50 pm to
It's one of two things... Either he doesn't realize this guy doesn't like women or he doesn't really think he's gay...
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13531 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:50 pm to
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Honestly didn't give it a lot of thought until recently. Someone saw her out with her friend and texted to tell me. So it made me think if appropriate or not.


So it's just the simple fact of someone seeing her drinking coffee with another person?

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129071 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:51 pm to
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You should meet him. If you don't, your insecurities will dream up all sorts of scenarios.





This. I bet you won't feel it's so "inappropriate" if you got to know her friends.


Obviously this guy is someone important in her life. You can either accept that is part of who she is and get over your insecurity.....or let her go and find a woman that has no male friends(good luck).
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:52 pm to
It's not like you can tell all gay men from straight men. The perception of your so working out and drinking alone with another man. That's what I mean.
Posted by OleWar
Troy H. Middleton Library
Member since Mar 2008
5828 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:52 pm to
Who is that dude?
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:52 pm to
You afraid she's gonna steal him from you, Brokeback?
Posted by Negative Nomad
Hell
Member since Oct 2011
3173 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:53 pm to
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This post was edited on 1/13/16 at 2:49 pm
Posted by td01241
Savannah
Member since Nov 2012
23222 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:53 pm to
I know this is going to probably be shocking to you, but girls and guys can hang out and go places together and not frick each other.
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:53 pm to
Coffee and what I'm talking g about are a little different
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:55 pm to
Yeah honestly if he was flamboyant I probably wouldn't even think about it so yes
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
66133 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:56 pm to
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lsunurse


My God can you tell this OP how GD lucky he is? This is a plus not a minus
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 3:57 pm to
So the real problem is you're qusetioning his homosexuality? Are you questioning your gf also, or her naivity when it comes to this?
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