re: Possible job change.. I'm scared. Need OT advice.

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This is important - your wife could have issues adjusting - she gets to stay home with two kids in a city where she knows no one while you get to go to work everyday, play video games and make new friends.

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BINGO--and this is just one of the negatives the guy will have to deal with. The OP can go ahead and dismiss this now, but when he comes home every night to an exhausted wife without family or friends to provide SUPPORT … well, I guarantee you he'll remember what I'm writing now.

And, as I said, this is just one of the many shite piles he'll be wading through as he tries to establish a new life for him and his family in a new town.

Jesus, this isn't that hard to understand: making a high stress move (new job/city) when you're already dealing with a stressful event (new family member)--only an imbecile would say this is a good situation in which to move.