re: Did you want to know who your SO slept with in the past?

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Build trust in the relationship? I know how many she's been with and vice versa, and it's not a big deal to either of us.

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There's a big difference in both people being mature enough to handle it and knowing. Jones and I know a good bit of that stuff.. from being friends or just being really sexually open people.

But let's face it.. generally the "Who have you slept with?!" question comes from a deeply jealous and insecure type of person.. the type of person who can't handle the truth.

Someone valuing their privacy doesn't mean they're a bad person or unworthy of a relationship. If you don't keep anything at all to yourself in your life, suit yourself. But you're perfectly allowed to.