re: anyone here go through a divorce, what helped you get through it?

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It was more of I wanted sex and she didn't. There were underlying emotional issues from her past that I should have realized were going to come up later.


When we first started dating we had awesome sex. Crazy sex. We were both like horny teenagers and it was really beautiful and I fell in love with that girl.

Time and marriage and changes in us and children and work just started to eat away at our relationship and we lost that magic. And I was too blind to see what was going on. I worked all the time and drank when I wasn't to fill the void of not being loved at home.

But I understand where she was. And now...I don't entirely blame her. We're all people with needs. And when someone's aren't being met...well, if she hadn't stepped out, eventually I would have.


We just stopped being good for each other and were in a maelstrom of misery that was killing us both slowly. I was so depressed that last year.

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