re: Anyone else had this problem after first child born?

It could be PPD, also some first-time mothers think that little Janie or Johnnie couldn't survive one day or one hour without specifically their own mother's constant hoverage. A good mother's consciousness never forgets she has children out in the world. I liken it to a program on a computer that's always running in the background. Sexist Alert: Good fathers can "forget" they have children for whole work days at a time. Good mothers always have the mother program on and up.

Good luck, your problem was a "her" problem that's now a "y'all" problem.