re: Anyone move their parents in?

We have some good friends that did this and it was a disaster. His mom and dad declined physically and mentally and there were constant fights, ambulance being called in the middle of the night, accusations of stealing and other silliness and when they were beyond being cared for refused to leave to a facility. They almost got divorced over it.

We had our basement remodeled to be a live in apt just in case and that turned out to be a waste of money. My FIL when he was in his final decline refused to live there but had no problem with treating my wife like his 24/7 care provider at his place and treated her like shite in the process.

Everyone’s parents are different but I’d say don’t do it.