re: Do the majority of women only look at what they can get out of a relationship now days?

Social media is harming the way we are wired as a species.

Women are somewhat more socially bounded so the trends and mindsets they experience online have a greater impact than it would for an average male.

I won’t speak to online dating beyond the other factor which has been scientifically noted which is that women only appear to be interested in the top quartile of men and view a pair match of a statistical equal from a looks perspective as unattractive.

That sounds innocent enough but spread across a population is enough to cause absolute chaos if our assumption is that every potential male is supposed to find a mate. I would point out that’s not how it works in other species, but that’s a separate conversation.