re: So last night I had a moment

I do feel sorry for you because at this late date you have now realized the consequences of your actions.

This post is the epitome of FAFO.

See you have/had fallen into the world trap of it is "OK to cheat on your wife"
You see a woman and you are attracted to her. You think I want some of that. I am sure you had buddies telling you to go for it. You have sex with the other woman and cross that boundary and BOOM you are now an adulterer. No consequences appear.So instead of taking responsibility for your fU@K up you blame your wife, the world, society anybody but yourself. Twist all logic aside and make yourself the victim and leave your family.

Last night you had a moment. Welcome to Consequences. You should have toughed it out like a real soldier. Taken the consequences of the moment and reflected on your character flaws and with your wife made it to the other side of redemption of your marriage and lived a happy life. You didn't choose that curtain did you?

You should be glad that there is still something left of your conscience to have your moment. I have a feeling you are going to have more of these moments with regrets thrown in.

One more thing you better start reflecting on how your peccadillo affected your kids. It did affect them you know. You not only cheated on her you cheated on them too. They lost a "live at home with mom" dad.

Consequences can be a real bitch and yours will never go away until you exit the planet. You will have to live with them. Cheer up though you are in good company what is 75 to 85 % of all marriage break up.