re: Dating as a 40 Year Old Man, How Realistic is it?

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I went on dates with meth heads to Bible thumpers, and everything in between. Dated a few decent girls for a couple months but none were worth staying with. I found my legitimate person. It's scary how alike we are and have telepathy with each other and can be states away from each other.

Jump in the pool bruh.

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And there's a theory (from one of the Matchmaker Netflix shows) that says, "Date 'em till you hate 'em!" I wouldn't take it quite that far, if you feel fairly indifferent to them after date 1 or just don't feel attracted after date 1, have another date or 2 to actually get to know them more and give them a chance. You'd probably like the same judgment for yourself. I know quite a few people that ended up married and happy to someone they didn't like much in the beginning or just felt indifferent about in the beginning. Don't write someone off immediately just because you don't think they are hot or you're a little bored. They may feel the same.