re: For the married OTers, do you do girls trips or guys trips?

Infrequently.

My wife will go on a beach weekend with her college friends every couple of years. Reality is that by the time these things arrive she's usually annoyed at going and doesn't like to be away from the kids. She's just not really the type.

I plan one of these every couple of years with my buddies but our wives typically corrupt it and end up coming. Dude trip to see Turnpike at Red Rocks turns into a Colorado family vacation and so on and so forth.