re: Divorce Board Spin-Off: If you have been married, why did you get married?

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With the rash of divorce threads as of late, I'm genuinely curious for the married folk why you got married. Looking back, do you think it was for the right reasons?

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baptist and wanted to have sex.

yes.

having sex outside of marriage has very short, fleeting, and temporary benefits and horrific lifelong consequences.

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And for the successfully married OTers, what do you feel like has made your marriage last?

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Married 20 years.

real answer to the above.

Divorce was never on the table for either of us. We had difference of opinions on several things, but have respect for each other's personhood.

We're on the same page about 90% of the time. She went a little stupid around 2020 because of her liberal white women moms she hung out with but figured out they were all vapid and. FoS and dropped that.