re: Getting financially screwed in divorce

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There is no cheating or abuse or anything. She is just a different person.

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Hmm….

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I should have divorced her years ago and saved some cash and stress but I really valued the family for the kids.

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I mean…sounds like you’ve resented her for years. Maybe that’s why she filed and went HAM in court?

Water under the bridge now I guess. It sounds like you might be in danger of being a worse parent because of your bitterness towards her. Try not to let that happen.