re: What happened to the cheating wife thread?

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wife cheating is deeper than the sex part. Sex is just the symptom of a larger issue. It's more about the "why?" and the painful answers that follow.

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Yep. It ain't sex, it's attention.

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A wife cheating is deeper than the sex part. Sex is just the symptom of a larger issue. It's more about the "why?" and the painful answers that follow.

More importantly, it's the broken trust that will ultimately end this dude's marriage, no matter what earnest-but-temporary bandaids are applied. Every time she's hours late, or unreachable by phone, or gets a text, etc., no matter how innocent/benign, the dude will make himself (& her) miserable with the "Where've you been?", "Why didn't you answer?" & "Who's that?" pre-fight questions. It's irreparable now, no matter how long they fool each other that it's working.

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Yep. It ain't sex, it's attention.

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yep, 75% of the time when a spouse cheats its because they are they are missing something in the marriage

some people are just assholes and whores but most of the time if a guy cheats...its because he isnt getting any from the wife or she belittles him at all times so even when he is getting some, she makes him feel like shite and its usually only duty sex. These women usually are miserable people and spend tons of time on social media comparing themselves to others. They are always riding their husbands arse about something, no matter what. No matter how much he does, things around the house, things for the kids/her etc etc its never good enough for her. He finally gets tired of it and ends up cheating with someone that may not be as pretty but is softer, quieter, nicer, and serves him.


if wife cheats, it may be he sucks in bed(usually one of the causes) and usually he doesnt even date her, communicate with her, and 99.99% of the time the sense of security across the board is broken. Usually its a combo of all these. Husband ignores her most of the day, his idea of sex time is rolling over and asking for it randomly, then she ends up never satisfied both sexually and emotionally. Usually guys like this think because they provide, thats all they should have to do and their wife should swoon over them just because. Wife usually falls for someone that shows them attention and actually allows them to talk and flirts with them so it makes the women feel special.


TLDR: dont be a dick and treat your spouse like you are just starting to date no matter how long you have been together.