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Women: Are We Dating the Same Guy?
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:06 pm
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:06 pm
I live in Virginia and my single buddy (40 yo) found out from a female friend that he's listed on this Facebook site for local women ("Are we dating the same guy?") to compare notes about their dates (ostensibly to out any predators, etc.). He got screen prints of where some chick said he wasn't seriously looking, that he was a waste of time. He remembered this girl and says he just wasn't interested in her. He's noticed that last year everything changed in the dating scene for him - whereas he still has initial interest from lots of women but then all of a sudden they ghost him before they meet. He attributes it to this site. And before you ask, he's a 6' fit guy, has a good corp job, owns his own house, divorced, no kids, wants kids.
My first thought when I heard about this was, how can this be legal? Can't they be sued for libel?
Oh, and as a result of this, there are now "Are we dating the same girl?" FB men's groups popping up.
We've had a number of MGTOW / red pill / incel threads on here lately. My observation is just like the political divide in this country is toxic and real, so is the war between the sexes.
Why am I interested? I have two young men in my household I'm responsible for and I do not envy them in this environment. I'm lucky in that I'm happily married but I worry about my boys. At least they know what a loving relationship looks like.
A lot of you OT'ers think "oh ya'll are just wimpy incels", "pussies", "just go to a bar and put your game face on", or "bench press 400" or some shite. That attitude is sticking your heads in the sand friends to the reality of where we are. I can see it first-hand hearing from my single guy friends and my wife's single lady friends that people just aren't getting together. And resources like the Facebook sites above aren't helping.
I can damn sure see why some men are like, to hell with this. I'll be the best person I can for me, nobody else. And if some woman comes along and can fit into my life, great. But I'm not going out of my way looking. My buddy is almost there.
I googled the group and found this: USA Today: Facebook womans group being sued
CLIFFS ---------- CLIFFS ------------- CLIFFS
Women's dating Facebook group w 3.5 million members nationwide getting sued for defaming men.
My first thought when I heard about this was, how can this be legal? Can't they be sued for libel?
Oh, and as a result of this, there are now "Are we dating the same girl?" FB men's groups popping up.
We've had a number of MGTOW / red pill / incel threads on here lately. My observation is just like the political divide in this country is toxic and real, so is the war between the sexes.
Why am I interested? I have two young men in my household I'm responsible for and I do not envy them in this environment. I'm lucky in that I'm happily married but I worry about my boys. At least they know what a loving relationship looks like.
A lot of you OT'ers think "oh ya'll are just wimpy incels", "pussies", "just go to a bar and put your game face on", or "bench press 400" or some shite. That attitude is sticking your heads in the sand friends to the reality of where we are. I can see it first-hand hearing from my single guy friends and my wife's single lady friends that people just aren't getting together. And resources like the Facebook sites above aren't helping.
I can damn sure see why some men are like, to hell with this. I'll be the best person I can for me, nobody else. And if some woman comes along and can fit into my life, great. But I'm not going out of my way looking. My buddy is almost there.
I googled the group and found this: USA Today: Facebook womans group being sued
CLIFFS ---------- CLIFFS ------------- CLIFFS
Women's dating Facebook group w 3.5 million members nationwide getting sued for defaming men.
This post was edited on 1/19/24 at 3:59 pm
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Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:11 pm to chrome_daddy
quote:
I have two young men in my household I'm responsible for and I do not envy them in this environment. I'm lucky in that I'm happily married but I worry about my boys
Honestly, don't be worried. Any of the women perusing that site aren't worth the time.
Your young boys will have no trouble finding a good girl and being happy. Raise them right, keep them off social media as much as possible. They will find a good girl and be happy. People are dong it everyday. The media is blowing the culture war way out of proportion by highlighting the extremes (shocking, I know)
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:12 pm to chrome_daddy
Cliffnotes please
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:15 pm to chrome_daddy
Congrats on graduating or I'm sorry he died.
I aint reading all that shite.
I aint reading all that shite.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:17 pm to chrome_daddy
If women are legit looking at that site and assuming it's realistic, chances are it's not the kind of annoying hen you want.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:17 pm to chrome_daddy
Lmao I was posted on that facebook page in my area but all the girls had nice things to say about me 
I ghosted the chick when I found out she asked about me.
I ghosted the chick when I found out she asked about me.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:18 pm to chrome_daddy
Of course u are, the available attractive women have narrowed their search down until only about 10% of available men if that quality.
Single
Good looking
College degree
Good stable job
6 foot tall
Etc etc etc
Single
Good looking
College degree
Good stable job
6 foot tall
Etc etc etc
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:18 pm to chrome_daddy
I was talking to a woman once that said I had popped up on there. Someone had said I was "a bit flaky."
I got kinda pissed at her and told her that it was frankly pretty violating to me and that I thought it was pretty immature that women are running around gossiping about men one social media. I mean the whole point of dating apps is to date people and find someone you want to have a relationship ship with right?
So long story short I fricked her on the first date and never called her again.
I got kinda pissed at her and told her that it was frankly pretty violating to me and that I thought it was pretty immature that women are running around gossiping about men one social media. I mean the whole point of dating apps is to date people and find someone you want to have a relationship ship with right?
So long story short I fricked her on the first date and never called her again.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:19 pm to chrome_daddy
As a single 30 year old dude, I say this to my married OT brethren: be thankful that you found that person because this shite got messy very quickly.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:20 pm to Scuttle But
quote:
So long story short I fricked her on the first date and never called her again.
As you should have. You were probably going to do that anyways
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:22 pm to chrome_daddy
quote:
He got screen prints
I stopped reading here because I have to ask: legitimately printed photos of a computer screen on paper?
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:25 pm to JetsetNuggs
quote:
As a single 30 year old dude, I say this to my married OT brethren: be thankful that you found that person because this shite got messy very quickly.
Whenever I hear some married dude complaining about easily solvable quibbles I just can’t take them seriously.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:25 pm to TutHillTiger
quote:
Single Good looking College degree Good stable job 6 foot tall
If you aren’t this then what are you doing with your life
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:42 pm to Scuttle But
quote:
So long story short I fricked her on the first date and never called her again.
So you are saying you are back on there, but as only looking for sex now instead of just being flaky? That probably didn’t help you.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:48 pm to Aspercel
quote:
So you are saying you are back on there, but as only looking for sex now instead of just being flaky? That probably didn’t help you
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:53 pm to Huey Lewis
Yeah. I’m a dumb blonde, so that tends to happen.
Back to where guys don’t like being called out for their shitty behavior…
Are there some vindictive angry women on those sites trying to trash men? Yes.
Are there guys who deserve every little thing said about them on there? Also yes.
I believe the latter far outweighs the former.
I’m so nice I teed up a fat joke for you.
Back to where guys don’t like being called out for their shitty behavior…
Are there some vindictive angry women on those sites trying to trash men? Yes.
Are there guys who deserve every little thing said about them on there? Also yes.
I believe the latter far outweighs the former.
I’m so nice I teed up a fat joke for you.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:53 pm to TutHillTiger
quote:
Of course u are, the available attractive women have narrowed their search down until only about 10% of available men if that quality.
Single
Good looking
College degree
Good stable job
6 foot tall
Etc etc etc
They've raised their standards even higher now. They're wanting an actual unicorn now.
This post was edited on 1/19/24 at 3:56 pm
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:57 pm to Aspercel
quote:
So you are saying you are back on there, but as only looking for sex now instead of just being flaky? That probably didn’t help you.
I've met me. Any woman that let's me inside of her on the first date clearly doesn't have very good judgement.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 3:59 pm to Scuttle But
I’ve not met you, and I will still go ahead and agree with you.
Posted on 1/19/24 at 4:00 pm to CoachChappy
quote:I want to believe
Your young boys will have no trouble finding a good girl and being happy. Raise them right, keep them off social media as much as possible. They will find a good girl and be happy. People are dong it everyday. The media is blowing the culture war way out of proportion by highlighting the extremes
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