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re: Do Affair Relationships Last After Divorce?
Posted on 1/16/24 at 3:26 pm to Oates Mustache
Posted on 1/16/24 at 3:26 pm to Oates Mustache
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Most normal people
have already railed or been railed by someone else before they got married.
It’s certainly different after one has made the lifetime commitment, but at the end of the day both people know their significant other has been with others before.
I think it’s the betrayal that is the most difficult to recover from.
Marriage is hard. It’s a major investment with major sacrifices made by both parties. The anticipated rewards cannot be achieved if one person is not trustworthy or fully committed.
It would seem to be very hard to earn the trust back.
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Posted on 1/16/24 at 3:47 pm to Norbert
A good friend of mine and I were discussing this subject the other day and he told me something a pastor once said which resonated with me.
The pastor based his comments on Proverbs 18:22 which says: “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.”
He said that young men should be looking for a woman who is already a wife, as in wife material with all the attributes of a wife before they get married because the scripture indicated finding a wife, not just finding a woman to marry.
There is a ton of wisdom in that, and it certainly culls the herd quite a bit.
The pastor based his comments on Proverbs 18:22 which says: “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.”
He said that young men should be looking for a woman who is already a wife, as in wife material with all the attributes of a wife before they get married because the scripture indicated finding a wife, not just finding a woman to marry.
There is a ton of wisdom in that, and it certainly culls the herd quite a bit.
Posted on 1/16/24 at 4:26 pm to Norbert
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but at the end of the day both people know their significant other has been with others before.
I fully agree, it's no like it's an uncommon thing anymore. But I still there's a mix of the emotional betrayal and the visual imagery and the physical act that, combined, put a nail in the marriage. Think about it like this, everyone knows what sex is, the physical act (well, everyone except for Oweo and Owlfan). Without being graphic, it's an animalistic experience between two people, culminating in well, you know.
There is absolutely the visual imagery of this act that goes through the cheatee's head as they contemplate the emotional betrayal of it. That's what sends men off the edge. I think they combine both and it just lights that powder keg.
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