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re: Guys who got divorced with kids; how do you deal with being away from your kids?

Posted on 12/30/23 at 7:39 am to
Posted by The People
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Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 12/30/23 at 7:39 am to
For context, I have one. A daughter, she is 9 now. My exwife has her every Monday and Tuesday. I have her every Wednesday and Thursday. We rotate with each having her every other weekend.

I use our time apart to recharge. I spend time with my girlfriend, go to the gym, travel some, take care of the house.

When she comes back to me, I am rested and ready to give her my best efforts. I am a better Dad now than when I was with her Mom, who could still the joy from a Saint.

In three words I can explain all of this: Life goes on…

You will learn a new normal. Sometimes, it’s better than the old.

This post was edited on 12/30/23 at 7:40 am
Posted by justjoe906
Member since Oct 2013
1406 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 7:44 am to
The guilt of the divorce and what the kids went through going through will never go away, not matter how old they are.
It's extremely hard on them as well.
Posted by chilge2
Member since Nov 2019
231 posts
Posted on 12/30/23 at 8:29 am to
quote:

I use our time apart to recharge. I spend time with my girlfriend, go to the gym, travel some, take care of the house. When she comes back to me, I am rested and ready to give her my best efforts.


This. Anything else will drive you insane. Holidays suck major arse.
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