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re: Seeing a lot of "mental health" posts here and in the news in general
Posted on 11/29/23 at 11:19 am to kingbob
Posted on 11/29/23 at 11:19 am to kingbob
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Imagine you’re at home. You’re just sitting scrolling td and flipping channels trying to unwind after work. Suddenly, out of nowhere, your brain and entire body start reacting like you’re being hunted for sport. You have no idea where that fear came from. It doesn’t make any sense. You know that no one is out to get you. Yet, your brain is telling you to hide because “they’re coming” and if anyone sees you, you’ll be brutally murdered.
You just want to go grab a sandwich from the fridge, but your wife or your roommate or your friend is in there, and your brain is telling you they can’t see you either. No matter how irrational the fear is, and how much you try to internally explain it away to your brain, the physical feeling of intense fear and anxiety simply won’t stop, like an unending panic attack. So, you try to distract yourself until it goes away, and it eventually does…for now.
The fact that it’s all irrational and in your head makes it actually worse. That means there’s something wrong with your body that you cannot control but rather controls you. Doctors tell you that it’s all in your head (no shitte), but all they can do is give you drugs that replaces that problem with a different one.
it's funny how everyone assumes I have not been through these things and worse and that my life has always been easy and ive never had "real" challenges like them...I'm not going to be one of these people who want to compare adversities and try and prove Ive had it worse. Thats a losers mentality. deal with it and keep moving
Posted on 11/29/23 at 11:23 am to sidewalkside
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deal with it
That's what people ARE doing, but you are calling them soft for it.
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it's funny how everyone assumes I have not been through these things
No, people are rightfully calling you out for being an arse hole. People deal with their issues as best they can to overcome them.
If your approach worked for you, great. Some people can't address it as simply as you claim you do.
Posted on 11/29/23 at 11:39 am to sidewalkside
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it's funny how everyone assumes I have not been through these things and worse and that my life has always been easy and ive never had "real" challenges like them...I'm not going to be one of these people who want to compare adversities and try and prove Ive had it worse. Thats a losers mentality. deal with it and keep moving
It’s your reference to challenges and tough times people question, and rightly so. See, you still think you’re made of Kevlar, when in reality, you’re just an egg the same as everyone else, and you can be broken, just like all the rest of the eggs. You just haven’t come to that reality yet in your life because you haven’t been put in the position to be broken, and so that explains the whole “suck it up and rub some dirt on it” nonsense you’re spewing.
Posted on 11/29/23 at 11:52 am to sidewalkside
quote:We’re not all wired the same though. Some people have more ability to be empathetic. I have a hard time with it as well. I’m very likely on the spectrum.
it's funny how everyone assumes I have not been through these things and worse and that my life has always been easy and ive never had "real" challenges like them.
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