re: A friend of mine is getting disowned by some family members for divorcing wife that

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Why is most of the anger being cast towards the guy?

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for me it is because op held him up as a model to be emulated by more men.

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should be equally as mad at her for being fat and lazy and doing nothing about it. Maybe they are both pieces of shite.

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that’s my take Based on limited information