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Follow up question: what’s you connection/relationship to the person you were threatening? And how many times in the past have you threatened this person?

He’s my future SiL. He threatened me ~2 months ago, it was just him, me, and my daughter, and we were in my house. My wife and I were letting them live with us because they wanted to save some money before their wedding. I kicked them out of our house and he threatened to kick my arse. My daughter un-invited me to their wedding and we didn’t talk again until last week. I asked my daughter to come over so we could talk and she showed up with her fiancé last Tuesday. He made the same threat again and I threatened him back…and sent some texts. I was serious…he probably wasn’t.

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Posted by la_birdman

Northern GA via Lake Charles

Member since Feb 2005

31044 posts

Posted on 10/28/23 at 10:50 am to SL Tiger

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He made the same threat again and I threatened him back…and sent some texts. I was serious

This is where you should’ve asked him to leave (again, he was in your house. You have every right to ask him to leave) or if he wouldn’t and continued to make threats, call the cops and tell them what happened. (I understand why you wanted to ask them to come over and make an attempt at making amends).

Obviously at some point he did leave but you continued to threaten him via texts. I’m not trying to defend him but he did leave and tried to diffuse the situation.

You should’ve dropped it once he left. I’m not saying that you weren’t ticked off but continuing to threaten him back after he left wasn’t a good idea. That’s where you messed up.

ETA: Is this for real? I just have a hard time believing that this happened and you felt like posting this because you weren’t able to see an LSU game. There was no input from other people that were also there in your home at the time? This sounds like something that is usually on the OT.