re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee

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I feel like I've offered every alternative but she's just adamant that "it's too overwhelming to plan anything right now"

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I got married this year, so I've been following the wedding subreddits for about a year now.

You'd be surprised how many women cannot handle "the stress" at all. Like.. I don't know what they do for a living, but it must be a cake walk for a glorified party so stress them out so much. Unless you have cuckoo family drama, it shouldn't be that stressful.