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re: Genuine OT help on a new engagee
Posted on 10/9/23 at 9:20 am to adamau
Posted on 10/9/23 at 9:20 am to adamau
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You need to understand right this very minute, that crippling fear that she has of disappointing other and that desire that she is showing to base every important decision she makes on the feelings and perceived opinions of people that don't matter WILL NEVER CHANGE. It just won't. You need to be at peace with the idea that your wife will forever be guided and at times brought to a complete stop by the idea that what she's doing will bother people that you find their opinions completely and totally unimportant.
I'm telling you this will happen with everything and it will make absolutely zero common sense to you. Getting ready for dinner parties, what clothes she's going to wear, how your house is picked up or decorated before people come over, later on how your kids dress or getting ready for their birthday parties or trips etc, EVERYTHING!!!
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Posted on 10/9/23 at 9:49 am to Carson123987
Not at all my guy.
However, men, myself included, spend far to much time and energy trying to rationalize with women. It simply never works, just letting my man know what he's lined up for. The woman he's going to marry isn't going to suddenly hear his wonderful advice (provided by the OT of course) on why nothing she's doing makes any type of rational sense whatsoever, and suddenly realize he's exactly right and change. It's not gonna happen. So, he can learn how to find a calm balance in life knowing those facts or drive himself insane trying to "fix" her.
However, men, myself included, spend far to much time and energy trying to rationalize with women. It simply never works, just letting my man know what he's lined up for. The woman he's going to marry isn't going to suddenly hear his wonderful advice (provided by the OT of course) on why nothing she's doing makes any type of rational sense whatsoever, and suddenly realize he's exactly right and change. It's not gonna happen. So, he can learn how to find a calm balance in life knowing those facts or drive himself insane trying to "fix" her.
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