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re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:22 pm to Oilfieldbiology
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:22 pm to Oilfieldbiology
Out of the mouth of babes. Get back to me in 2043. I'll keep you in my prayers in the meantime as the truth of the "fairer sex" reveals itself to you.
That said, it's obvious you are a good man and a good husband/father. This isn't personal. It's a bit of a shame you lack the wisdom to extend that same courtesy acknowledgement to me, someone who is simply explaining to you, what you will know, two decades down the road. All my male friends in long-term marriages know it. That's what we talk about over cocktails, how our sweet little pumpkins morphed over time into Emotionless Killbots lol. All of us talked like you at your age. Because we believed it just as whole heartedly as you did. Probably more, since there was no real counter-narrative as there is now, in this social media age. And these men, talk with no sentimentality, about a life spent as a plow horse in the service of a woman who changed and became thirstier for resources over time. You'll see.
That said, it's obvious you are a good man and a good husband/father. This isn't personal. It's a bit of a shame you lack the wisdom to extend that same courtesy acknowledgement to me, someone who is simply explaining to you, what you will know, two decades down the road. All my male friends in long-term marriages know it. That's what we talk about over cocktails, how our sweet little pumpkins morphed over time into Emotionless Killbots lol. All of us talked like you at your age. Because we believed it just as whole heartedly as you did. Probably more, since there was no real counter-narrative as there is now, in this social media age. And these men, talk with no sentimentality, about a life spent as a plow horse in the service of a woman who changed and became thirstier for resources over time. You'll see.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:25 pm to Lsupimp
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about a life spent as a plow horse in the service of a woman who changed and became thirstier for resources over time
preach brother
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:27 pm to Lsupimp
we know a thing or two because we've seen a thing or two.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:57 pm to Lsupimp
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All of us talked like you at your age
I know you are replying to someone else but I am nearly 50, most of my close friends and co-workers are mid 40s to early 60s. We are all low to middle class. I do not have a single person in my bubble in the last 15 years that has been divorced, one co-worker's wife died in a car accident. Sounds like you either married the wrong woman or changed in a negative way just as she did...... I don't know though.
I live in Shreveport, not any magical area, yet the vast majority of us seem to be happy. Sure people can fake it, but out of these 15-20 couples wife and I know, over the last 10-25 years, they are hiding it very well. I will say, one thing most of us don't do is spend much time on the interent or social media (some, but not a lot of time), wife and I give ourselves a 1 hour limit, maybe that helps, I don't know.
ETA: I have a 24 y/o and 2 in HS, not a new daddy and sweet husband excited about life and just haven't "found out" yet.
This post was edited on 8/7/23 at 1:59 pm
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