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re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:05 pm to Lsupimp
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:05 pm to Lsupimp
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How old are you Oilfield? And how long has your marriage lasted? And without getting personal or projecting, dispense some advice. I'd love to hear the wisdom you are sure to dispense; a little optimism to counter my realism, as it were...
Not nearly as old as you as I’m still in the stage where our children are entirely dependent on us.
I’m not the shinning example of perfection in any facet of my life. Neither is my wife, neither is our marriage. However, I can look at my life, see how happy I get when I get to spend time with my wife, my kids, them together, and realize how much they enriched my life. What I’m trying to say is I’m not the person to come to in how to make the perfect marriage although I think I have it pretty damned good.
What I am saying is that in your post that I originally replied too, you boiled women down to nothing but emotional instability and demand and then stated as a man you should want your wife to be quiet, be subservient, to feed you, and to frick you. If that’s the relationship you desire, you’re as emotionally bent and warped as the woman you described.
Posted on 8/7/23 at 1:22 pm to Oilfieldbiology
Out of the mouth of babes. Get back to me in 2043. I'll keep you in my prayers in the meantime as the truth of the "fairer sex"
reveals itself to you.
That said, it's obvious you are a good man and a good husband/father. This isn't personal. It's a bit of a shame you lack the wisdom to extend that same courtesy acknowledgement to me, someone who is simply explaining to you, what you will know, two decades down the road. All my male friends in long-term marriages know it. That's what we talk about over cocktails, how our sweet little pumpkins morphed over time into Emotionless Killbots lol. All of us talked like you at your age. Because we believed it just as whole heartedly as you did. Probably more, since there was no real counter-narrative as there is now, in this social media age. And these men, talk with no sentimentality, about a life spent as a plow horse in the service of a woman who changed and became thirstier for resources over time. You'll see.
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That said, it's obvious you are a good man and a good husband/father. This isn't personal. It's a bit of a shame you lack the wisdom to extend that same courtesy acknowledgement to me, someone who is simply explaining to you, what you will know, two decades down the road. All my male friends in long-term marriages know it. That's what we talk about over cocktails, how our sweet little pumpkins morphed over time into Emotionless Killbots lol. All of us talked like you at your age. Because we believed it just as whole heartedly as you did. Probably more, since there was no real counter-narrative as there is now, in this social media age. And these men, talk with no sentimentality, about a life spent as a plow horse in the service of a woman who changed and became thirstier for resources over time. You'll see.
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