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re: Soft White Underbelly- A Divorce Attorney’s Thoughts on Love and Marriage

Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:08 pm to
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
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Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:08 pm to
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See, I think it's far broader than legitimate personality disorders. I think it's female NATURE. They are solipsists by nature. They can't escape it. It's their self-built prison cell. They want you to do ALL the heavy lifting. Ok cool, that's our male nature (before 15 minutes ago), But they also DEMAND that we entertain their every thought and emotion as if we actually give a frick. Newsflash ladies, we don't. We want to frick you. We want you to make our dinner. We want you to pour us a drink. We want you to look sexy for us. We want cleavage and painted nails and lipstick and blowjobs. We want you to give us a boner. We want you to work your shite out quietly when we watch football games and Youtube videos about aircraft carriers and engineering disasters. We have ZERO interest in the 378787 ways we are failing you by not agreeing to help you resolve the 43573635 ways you are aggrieved because Daddy didn't hug you and so-and-so undermined you in a social setting or at work. frick that and pity to the men who make the decision to endure that. Fix me Daddy. Fix me. All day Fix me Daddy. Oh hell no. Imma watch the game. Fix your fricking self.


You need to re-read this quote. Really, deeply, and attentively read it and understand it. If you do that and still come away thinking “Yeah, I’m right. I nailed it” you need serious help and you need to get the hell off the internet and go have real, deep, human interactions. Hopefully one where you can put someone else above your own base needs.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:11 pm to
Pimp hasn't been the same since his divorce a few years ago.
Posted by TheOcean
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Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:17 pm to
Pimp is spitting some truths. Your wife got your balls in a vice?
Posted by Sam Quint
Member since Sep 2022
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Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:23 pm to
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You need to re-read this quote. Really, deeply, and attentively read it and understand it. If you do that and still come away thinking “Yeah, I’m right. I nailed it” you need serious help and you need to get the hell off the internet and go have real, deep, human interactions. Hopefully one where you can put someone else above your own base needs.

take out the stuff about lipstick and blowjobs, and i'm not sure what you can really argue with there. certainly aligns with my experience. we must not only listen, but entertain and even AGREE with every emotional flight of fancy that crosses a woman's mind, no matter how objectively ludicrous it is. and if we dont listen, agree, and actively work to relieve the woman of the emotional burden of carrying her dreamed up crisis, then we are guilty of "emotional abuse". and if we DO listen, agree, and relieve them of their Monday crises, well there is a Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday crisis coming as well, and you fricking better handle those just as well or better than Monday's, otherwise - you guessed it - you are an abuser.

Posted by Lsupimp
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Member since Nov 2003
79285 posts
Posted on 8/7/23 at 12:28 pm to
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you need serious help you need serious help and you need to get the hell off the internet and go have real, deep, human interactions. Hopefully one where you can put someone else above your own base needs.



Lady Splainin' noted. It's ubiquitous. I've never had a day away from it. It is the current wisdom. Sexuality is way down the list, men and women are equal, men just love to sit attentively while women regale them with Lady thoughts. I've been indoctrinated in that the same as you. But it's a lie.

Ma'am, as my father and grandfather before me, I have spent a LIFETIME "putting someone else above your (my) own base needs". This is what good men do NATURALLY. We sacrifice, bleed, nurture, give everything we have to our wives and children. As I type this my beloved daughter is in another room of my home sleeping in my bed because it makes her feel secure. Yesterday I moved her into her sorority house and she came back today because she needed her Daddy just like I need her. I'd put my "nurturing" up to yours and spot you 1000 acts of kindness, ma'am. But go ahead, condescend if it makes you feel superior.

I am discussing the nature of WOMEN. I understand them. Rather than insulting me in the feminine manner, maybe you can provide a valid counterpoint. Tell us about the joys of marriage and the emotional well-being of American women. And then tell me how marriage benefits men. Especially the men who are post child-rearing that I am discussing. Tell me how hitching your man-wagon to their cart of problems benefits me. I'll listen respectfully.

You have the floor.
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