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Senior financial planning
Posted on 8/3/23 at 10:06 am
Posted on 8/3/23 at 10:06 am
My mother (82 y/o) is kinda freaking out because she thinks she has too much money in equities. Probably so. My dad died last Dec. and she seems obsessed with all his (now hers) accounts and the values. She doesn't want the value to decline so that the kids will get "more" when she dies. Wants to sell a lot and put it in CD's. I keep telling her that if she doesn't need the money (and she doesn't) just ignore it. to be fair he bought small amounts of junk that's either worthless or nearly so, so it may be fine to sell those. Mostly experimental drug stocks.
What is it with old people and CD's?
What is it with old people and CD's?
This post was edited on 8/3/23 at 10:07 am
Posted on 8/3/23 at 10:13 am to Jmcc64
I mean CD's paying 5%+ aren't a terrible idea for someone at 82. She should be trying to preserve as much as possible. She could live for another 20+ years or could pass away before that but there's no guarantee she'll have time to weather big swings in her portfolio.
Posted on 8/3/23 at 10:19 am to Jmcc64
If she’s too heavy in equities and also has some losses, it may be a good time to reduce the exposure while incurring little or no capital gains taxes. Nothing wrong with CDs in this environment. Buffet is sitting on piles of cash.
Posted on 8/3/23 at 10:20 am to Jmcc64
"My mother (82 y/o) is kinda freaking out because.."
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Not unusual for situtation.
My Mom was in a similar situation when my Dad died. I took over managing her assets. A couple of siblings also helped oversee the process.
She would call me hyperventilating when certain paperwork came in. A simple "I'll take care of it" and she calmed down quickly.
RIP Mom
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Not unusual for situtation.
My Mom was in a similar situation when my Dad died. I took over managing her assets. A couple of siblings also helped oversee the process.
She would call me hyperventilating when certain paperwork came in. A simple "I'll take care of it" and she calmed down quickly.
RIP Mom
This post was edited on 8/3/23 at 10:29 am
Posted on 8/3/23 at 10:26 am to Jmcc64
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I keep telling her that if she doesn't need the money (and she doesn't) just ignore it.
So these are investments that she isn't going to need to live off for potentially 20 years and she is more concerned about increasing their value for eventual inheritance?
Posted on 8/3/23 at 11:53 am to Hermit Crab
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So these are investments that she isn't going to need to live off for potentially 20 years and she is more concerned about increasing their value for eventual inheritance?
or not losing value for inheritance. she shouldn't need the money from selling. her current pensions should keep her going fine. no debt at all. she also thinks she's going to die in a year or so. so there's that.
Posted on 8/3/23 at 12:09 pm to Jmcc64
Maybe explain to here that you'd likely invest inheritance in equities yourself so might as well stay invested now so you dont have to buy at higher prices.
Are these retirement or taxable accounts? Could make a big difference tax wise if for instance she sells to rebalance and realizes a large capital gain versus passing it on to heirs at stepped up basis. May be less of factor w partial stepped up basis from father .
I'd start by reallocating any single stocks especially more speculative ones. She should be anxious about those since no one is monitoring them. Perhaps she'd be comfortable with a broad market fund to spread risk but keep things invested in market to grow estate.
Are these retirement or taxable accounts? Could make a big difference tax wise if for instance she sells to rebalance and realizes a large capital gain versus passing it on to heirs at stepped up basis. May be less of factor w partial stepped up basis from father .
I'd start by reallocating any single stocks especially more speculative ones. She should be anxious about those since no one is monitoring them. Perhaps she'd be comfortable with a broad market fund to spread risk but keep things invested in market to grow estate.
This post was edited on 8/3/23 at 4:32 pm
Posted on 8/3/23 at 3:37 pm to TorchtheFlyingTiger
Also, basis write up at death is like a short circuit chest code in the tax code…so grow, baby, grow over the remaining years of her life.
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