re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20

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But that ship has sailed.

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Yes, it has.

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I think my current feelings have less to do with her and more to do with a lack of confidence in being able to move on.

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You do not have to move on to another relationship at this point in time. Move on to a relationship with yourself, your family and friends. You should not depend on anyone but you. Take care of you.

I wasn’t married, but I was cheated on and devastated. It’s not fun. I spent some time feeling sorry for myself and thinking I wasn’t worthy etc…. The guy was really close friends with some of my family members which didn’t help. I called an end to my pity party, put on my big girl panties and resumed enjoying life. It wasn’t easy, but I was determined. When I made that decision, things fell into place. The hurt was lighter. I found I was so much better off. He married 4 times.