re: How do people cope with separation or divorce?

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How do people cope with separation or divorce?

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Shift the focus to yourself. It can be done. It isn't easy. It sucks. But the only thing you can control in this situation is yourself. You have to learn how to let everything else go.

Find a hobby or activity that you enjoy. Work on yourself. Maybe it's working on yourself physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. If you do this daily, you will become a better person. It doesn't mean you will get your spouse back, but you will be more well-rounded for anything that comes your way in life.

You'll learn in life that sadly, when the shite hits the fan, you are the only person in this life that you can truly count on. So, it's up to you to get yourself better to deal with what life throws at you.