re: This Poor Baw - Just wants a hot meal after pulling a 13 hour shift

She is night and day a different person than the girl I married. My responsibility lies in not having dated / been engaged long enough to see her reveal herself

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My wife makes a great home for us. Cleans the house, does all our laundry, takes care of our kids needs, even helps in the yard when it’s needed. She doesn’t cook much, but that’s only because I’m a lot better cook and I don’t mind doing it.

There are still good women out there, you just have to make sure she is willing to make a good home for you before you get married. Hate to say it, but it’s probably your fault. Unless she flipped the script after saying vows, it’s usually self evident, you just got hypnotized by the pu$$y.

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Yep, not trying to pile on that dude who is clearly unhappy, but it seems like a coping measure to say, "well if I'm unhappy and hate my wife, at least no other man in the world is happy with their wives because they're all as unhappy as me"

Unfortunately, that's not true. That attitude also makes an easy excuse to stay with your wife since you think you can't do better, and then you get even more unhappy.

Leave, be single, be picky as frick, and you'll eventually find someone better....or don't find anyone at all. But the idea of staying with a wife that makes you THAT unhappy is wild, and it's just flat out incorrect to think they must all be like that just because the one I married is like that.