re: Have women bitten off more than they can chew w/(family courts/marriage/divorce)

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And that's the women's fault? Most of the other men aren't sought after because they are slobs, don't understand hygiene, display a lot of the sentiment in this thread, lack empathy, and are actually undesirable. Just be a person. Dress well enough, keep you house clean, take a shower, pick up a social hobby, control your alcohol intake, get in shape. Not because you're pursuing women, but because that's what people do. I know grown men that still won't eat vegetables. Not as in "I'm doing the carnivore diet" but they have this weird quasi-macho hatred towards vegetables. Many times on this board I see people hemming and hawing about a woman they like, but they're Jerry Seinfeld style hung up on the size of her big toe or a weird motion she makes with her arms. Or, and this is even worse, they go down the "wonder how she'll get along with my family" as if their family is the end all be all to a healthy relationship. Tl;dr -- clean yourself up, actually respect women (don't pretend), and find someone you like. Understand that if you went until 35 single, you fricked yourself in terms of the dating pool. It's not women's fault.

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