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My baby momma wants to put me on child support
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:14 pm
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:14 pm
She called me today to inform me of this, saying that she needs to ensure our 4 year old son has everything he needs. My current girlfriend is giving birth to my daughter in May so she feels threatened that my son will be forgotten.
Honestly I really don’t deserve it, any time she’s ever asked for money I’ve sent it to her. Daycare, pullups, clothes, haircuts, food, anything he needs. I’ve also kept records of these transactions and receipts of stuff I’ve bought him. Basically she’s just being a bitch.
We have no set custody agreement. I work on tows 28/14. I keep him the entire 2 weeks I’m off and she has him the rest of the time.
TLDR; what are some actions that I can take to protect myself? I intend on getting a lawyer. What should I expect?
Honestly I really don’t deserve it, any time she’s ever asked for money I’ve sent it to her. Daycare, pullups, clothes, haircuts, food, anything he needs. I’ve also kept records of these transactions and receipts of stuff I’ve bought him. Basically she’s just being a bitch.
We have no set custody agreement. I work on tows 28/14. I keep him the entire 2 weeks I’m off and she has him the rest of the time.
TLDR; what are some actions that I can take to protect myself? I intend on getting a lawyer. What should I expect?
This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to TulaneFan
It sounds like you need to make better choices in life.
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to TulaneFan
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
Birth control, bubba.
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to TulaneFan
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
wear condoms?
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to TulaneFan
As much as I think that system is broken, it gives her documented and binding legal rights. You can't just say no after it's done.
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to TulaneFan
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?

Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to TulaneFan
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My baby momma
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My current girlfriend is giving birth to my daughter
quote:a vasectomy
what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:15 pm to TulaneFan
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
Get a vasectomy.
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to TulaneFan
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I work on tows 28/14
Your new child probably isn't yours so you don't have to worry about child support
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to TulaneFan
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Honestly I really don’t deserve it, any time she’s ever asked for money I’ve sent it to her. Daycare, pullups, clothes, haircuts, food, anything he needs. I’ve also kept records of these transactions and receipts of stuff I’ve bought him. Basically she’s just being a bitch.
It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what’s best for your child. A new attitude about it would probably go a long way.
This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 4:24 pm
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to TulaneFan
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saying that she needs to ensure our 4 year old son has everything he needs
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so she feels threatened that my son will be forgotten.
Yeaaaaaaaa those contradict
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:16 pm to TulaneFan
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what are some actions that I can take to protect myself?
condom or vascetomy to start
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I intend on getting a lawyer.
May help but child support in Louisiana is set in law
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What should I expect?
arse rape, lot's of arse rape
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to TulaneFan
Expect she already has a lawyer and has been keeping the proper records for a while now. Including how much you see him and how much you have given.
Expect $1k/month if you aren't at 50/50, plus whatever split in income for all the other childs needs. Since you are 28/14 I would say you can probably go over that.
Expect $1k/month if you aren't at 50/50, plus whatever split in income for all the other childs needs. Since you are 28/14 I would say you can probably go over that.
This post was edited on 3/7/19 at 3:18 pm
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to TulaneFan
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This post was edited on 9/26/20 at 12:41 am
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to TulaneFan
The judge is going to apply a set formula based on your gross income and that is what you will have to pay every month. No need to spend a to spend a bunch in a lawyer.
Btw. It would be a good idea to stop having baby’s with every girl you date. shite is going to get very expensive
Btw. It would be a good idea to stop having baby’s with every girl you date. shite is going to get very expensive
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:17 pm to TulaneFan
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baby momma
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My current girlfriend
Having 2 kids out of wedlock is awesome. Bravo sir

Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:18 pm to TulaneFan
Get a lawyer. File a set custody agreement. Stop giving her extra money. It's considered a gift and not child support at this point. If she wants to play ball, play.
Posted on 3/7/19 at 3:19 pm to boosiebadazz
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It’s not about what you deserve. It’s about what’s best for your child. A new attitude about it would probably go along way.
Look at this beta
You probably go to piano recitals and shite

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