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re: Question about teen daughter keeping computer in her room at night

Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:19 pm to
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422584 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:19 pm to
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Does she have facebook and/or Instagram and all that shite? If so, do you have access and passwords to them?


if you are worried about your 14 y/o having a laptop in her room at night and you're looking for FB/IG...

Posted by Tiger Bawlz
Southeast of Disorder
Member since Dec 2007
1977 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:23 pm to
quote:


if you are worried about your 14 y/o having a laptop in her room at night and you're looking for FB/IG...


Please tell me that is not a 14 y/o....
Posted by Pkin
Member since May 2015
222 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:27 pm to
Being too strict now will just push them away once they are old enough to do whatever they want.

My parents are great people but I have lived in a different state from them since I was 18 for similar reasons.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
422584 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:28 pm to
she represents the parent, not the 14 y/o
Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:30 pm to
Nope. Chat rooms and hard dicks don't have a bed time.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 9:31 pm
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70919 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:31 pm to
eh, I wouldn't let em either.
Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:34 pm to
Also it's school property and they will have access to all info on the laptop if they don't have a keystroke program on it already.school work only.
Posted by Tiger Bawlz
Southeast of Disorder
Member since Dec 2007
1977 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:35 pm to
quote:

she represents the parent, not the 14 y/o


Good Deal...
Posted by BigEdLSU
All around the south
Member since Sep 2010
20268 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:40 pm to
I don't have a daughter so take my opinion with a grain of salt, but to me as a parent it makes me wonder what they are wanting to do in private that is such a big deal. If it's truly nothing wrong, do it in a common area.

What's the most innocent thing it could possibly be? Staying up late chatting with a friend? That's still no good on a school night IMO.
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
Member since Oct 2007
160104 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:40 pm to
Think she's going to take cooter pics?
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69104 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:46 pm to
I would just really really impact in her that anything what so ever that is sent on the internet is out there forever. Once you made that digital file and took it off of your device, hell even on your device it can be hacked (see the fappening) I would definitely want them to know that it can hurt them forever and hope and pray they do not bring up the Kardashian or Hilton defense.

It's scary. I'm glad the schools teach kids at a young age the dangers of the internet. There are so many apps now that speed up IRL contact and chatting, that I would hope he/she knows the dangers of meeting strangers.

Now if they are just doing what we are doing now, and wasting time on forums and watching cat videos and shite, then I see no problem. It's just the dark side the bothers me. The creepy predators out there.

Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124450 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:54 pm to
Has anyone requested pics yet?
Posted by Tiger Bawlz
Southeast of Disorder
Member since Dec 2007
1977 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 9:59 pm to
quote:

Has anyone requested pics yet?


Posted by WhoDatTigerStripes
Member since Nov 2014
23 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:14 pm to
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frick that shite. Teenage aren't trustworthy and you shouldn't treat them as such. Ops daughter is just gonna snapchat and tinder if he let's her have technology


THIS.

Like someone said earlier, trust is earned and it certainly takes longer than 2 teenage years to earn it. Some of you think strict parenting isn't a good idea? I've seen too many parents befriend their children which ends in disaster and an adulthood of underachieving. Ultimately, parent how you see fit. Who cares what other parents are doing and who knows if the 14 year old isn't just saying that shite to make you feel bad? Kids are sneaky...
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30578 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:16 pm to
Just monitor her computer. No deleting the history, and have her text messages archived and sent to you by the phone company. And let her know you're doing that, last thing you want is documented proof that you received pics of some 15 year olds new nut hairs
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124450 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:18 pm to
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77986 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:21 pm to
quote:

trust is earned and it certainly takes longer than 2 teenage years to earn it


How do they earn it if you don't give them the opportunity? Serious question.
Posted by fouldeliverer
Lannisport
Member since Nov 2008
13538 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 10:40 pm to
As a teacher who has taught that age group for years at a school that issues computers, don't let her keep it in her room. Trust me.
Posted by jennBN
Member since Jun 2010
3151 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 11:02 pm to
I have a young daughter. Trust your gut instincts. You have an obligation to keep her safe.
Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 11:08 pm to
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Normal parents do.


What the frick would you know about normal or parents?
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