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re: Question about teen daughter keeping computer in her room at night

Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:19 pm to
Posted by Landmass
Member since Jun 2013
18067 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:19 pm to
If you let her keep it in her room then you're asking for trouble. Kids are too stupid to protect themselves so you have to be the one to do it. Who cares what the other parents do? She doesn't know anyway.
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
25295 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:29 pm to
quote:

Dude..its the 90's!!

Dude..its 2015!!!


The use of technology is probably here to stay and those jobs are better than average.

However, no computer savvy needed at all to operate this device.
Posted by volnavy
Fair wind and following seas
Member since Jan 2009
748 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:33 pm to
Tell her you trust her, then tell her you don't trust anyone else. Have a discussion on the dangers of hacking and just put a sticker over the camera.

If someone can hack an artificial heart, they will hack your computer. Hell, there were threads on here about school officials using the school issued computers to track and watch kids at home.
Posted by jimithing11
Dillon, Texas
Member since Mar 2011
22471 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:35 pm to
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A 14 year old girl was naked in her room and using FaceTime on her laptop and talking to an older boy that I know. Depends on how much you trust your daughter.



good lord. I didn't have a phone or laptop when I was 14
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:36 pm to
I'd also consider taking the computer away on school nights once HW is done and then letting her have it on the weekends.
Posted by MBclass83
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
9347 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:37 pm to
If I had it to do over again, I would take all electronics away at night. The texts alone keep them up way past bedtime. Not good for school nights.JMO
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
4409 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:40 pm to
Epoxy over the camera lens.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81185 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:50 pm to


By far the best paraphrasing of Caddyshack I've ever seen...

"Well. The world needs ditch diggers too!"
Posted by Weaver
Madisonville, LA
Member since Nov 2005
27721 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:52 pm to
Good idea. Could be watching porn.
Posted by motorbreath
New Orleans Saints fan
Member since Jun 2004
6381 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:57 pm to
What teenagers want more than anything else is independance. Give her as much independence as you can now because it won't be long before she will be out on her own and it's your job to get her ready for that while still under your supervision. Otherwise she will rebell.

Like someone else said, you can monitor her computer use remotely to ensure she is following your guidelines.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5152 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 7:57 pm to
Say what they will. My son has is a sophomore. He was issued an iPad last year and also has a phone. It's not even a thought. All electronics stay in the front of the house(not in the bedroom). He also does not have facebook, twitter, or any other social media. His coaches have set him up with scouting sites, but that's it. He's a 4.0 student, doing well in two sports, has a great circle of friends and is focused on school = my goal. The same will hold true for my next 3 behind him.
Posted by Tiger Bawlz
Southeast of Disorder
Member since Dec 2007
1977 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:04 pm to
quote:


The use of technology is probably here to stay and those jobs are better than average.

However, no computer savvy needed at all to operate this device.


Posted by Rhino5
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2014
28897 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:07 pm to
Good for you!!!! Good parent! Keep it up!
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77931 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:12 pm to
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He also does not have facebook, twitter, or any other social media. 


You keep telling yourself that if it helps you sleep at night.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5699 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:12 pm to
It is your house and your rules. She is your daughter and your responsibility. Raise her as you feel appropriate. I applaud you for standing your ground and being a good parent. There aren't enough parents with a backbone anymore.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 8:13 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77931 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:15 pm to
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There aren't enough parents with a backbone anymore.



My neighbors had backbone. Didn't let their daughter do anything. They both turned into raging whores.
Posted by GCTIDER
Mississippi
Member since May 2012
1893 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:18 pm to
Do you have kids?
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5132 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:19 pm to
Webcam ip brah?
Posted by RandySavage
Member since May 2012
30818 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:20 pm to
You're probably in the minority but most parents give their kids phones at tablets starting at like age 3 so they don't have to do their job so I would say on most issues with parenting being in the minority is not a bad thing.
Posted by Cashmoney99
Member since Jun 2014
261 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 8:23 pm to
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