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Question about teen daughter keeping computer in her room at night

Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:15 pm
Posted by financetiger
Member since Feb 2008
1674 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:15 pm
Our daughter is a freshman this fall and is only 14. The girls just got issued school laptops for them to be responsible for. Our daughter is saying we are the only parents that ask her to bring it downstairs before bed every night. We don't allow them to keep their cell phones in their rooms at night and don't think this should be any different. Every once in a while we'll let them make an exception and sleep with it if they have a sleep over or something like that. Do parent's really let their kids sleep with computers in their room? She is saying all the other girls get to sleep with theirs in their rooms. I'd like some opinions from other parents.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 6:17 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77965 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:16 pm to
Jesus she is going to hate ya'll.

What is the reasoning? Just curious.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 6:18 pm
Posted by tom
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2007
8156 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:16 pm to
Who cares what other parents do? Other people are dumb as hell.
Posted by Agforlife
Somewhere in the Brazos Valley
Member since Nov 2012
20102 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:17 pm to
Only let my god daughters do it because the home network was protected like a corporate network and they could be monitored from another pc





Eta: the issue wasn't a trust thing on their side, it had more to do with other kids that the family didn't know well.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 6:24 pm
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55606 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:18 pm to
quote:

Do parent's really let their kids sleep with computers in their room?
Normal parents do.
Posted by plaqueminestiger
Member since Jul 2015
17 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:18 pm to
If you let her keep her computer in her room she will become a whore. You don't want that, do you?
Posted by lighter345
Member since Jan 2009
11864 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:18 pm to
Yea. I am going to bet you are one of the few that don't allow it.
Posted by tracytiger
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2009
3631 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:19 pm to
A 14 year old girl was naked in her room and using FaceTime on her laptop and talking to an older boy that I know. Depends on how much you trust your daughter.
Posted by Tiger Bawlz
Southeast of Disorder
Member since Dec 2007
1977 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:19 pm to
quote:


Question about teen daughter keeping computer in her room at night
Our daughter is a freshman this fall and is only 14. The girls just got issued school laptops for them to be responsible for. Our daughter is saying we are the only parents that ask her to bring it downstairs before bed every night. We don't allow them to keep their cell phones in their rooms at night and don't think this should be any different. Every once in a while we'll let them make an exception and sleep with it if they have a sleep over or something like that. Do parent's really let their kids sleep with computers in their room? She is saying all the other girls get to sleep with theirs in their rooms. I'd like some opinions from other parents.


Posted by Ellssu
Spying North of the Border
Member since Dec 2006
2478 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:19 pm to
You have a right to think out of the box on this. We raised our two kids in a different environment. You go with your gut and error on the side of caution. Trust has to be earned not given. Good Luck.
Posted by Tigerwaffe
Orlando
Member since Sep 2007
4975 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:20 pm to
My 17-year-old daughter has all her gadgets in her room, and it doesn't do any harm at all. I think OP is being a bit--rigid? excessive?--in setting this rule for his kid.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77965 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:20 pm to
You are telling your daughter that you don't trust her. Has she given you a reason not to trust her?
Posted by michael corleone
baton rouge
Member since Jun 2005
5807 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:20 pm to
We let outs keep it in her room. Never had an issue, but she is a great kid. Had a big talk about trust Of course , we can see all of her text messages and this played a role in the decision making process.
Posted by Modern
Fiddy Men
Member since May 2011
16877 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:20 pm to
I'm not trying to tell you how to raise your daughter, but 14 and going into HS. It's time to let your daughter grow up. Don't shelter her do death because It will backfire.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85032 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:21 pm to
quote:

Do parent's really let their kids sleep with computers in their room?
Yes. Do you not trust your kid? Because if you don't, then she has no reason to be trustworthy.
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 6:24 pm
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:22 pm to
Raise your kids thow you like. frick what every other parents are doing, do what you think is best .
This post was edited on 7/30/15 at 6:26 pm
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
77965 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:22 pm to
quote:

Trust has to be earned not given


But the OP is not even giving her a chance to earn it.
Posted by lighter345
Member since Jan 2009
11864 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:23 pm to
Jesus.

Im so glad my parents didn't snoop on my texts and play big brother.
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117698 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:23 pm to
This should be entertaining.
Posted by WhitewaterDawg
Tennessee
Member since Aug 2011
7233 posts
Posted on 7/30/15 at 6:23 pm to
Ack!!!
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