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Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:02 am to TexasTiger08
Having been cheated on myself, it's a terrible thing to go through.
With that said, you will find light on the other side, it's just going to take some time. And you have a child on the way who is going to need and love you. Don't miss that.
With that said, you will find light on the other side, it's just going to take some time. And you have a child on the way who is going to need and love you. Don't miss that.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:07 am to TexasTiger08
Been there. In darkness you always seem lost and wandering aimlessly. But you are never alone. Life is precious and people do care. It's just you can't see it right now. Continue therapy, but do simple things like get a dog. Go for walks. Go to church. Support groups. Volunteer. This all helped me
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:17 am to TexasTiger08
My kids changed my life for the better and gave me immense purpose. I know your daughter will do the same for you!
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:24 am to TexasTiger08
Look into micro-dosing. My buddy who was severely injured in a military training plane crash while most of the soldiers around him were killed, started this a few years ago and it worked wonders on his PTSD and severe depression. It really lifted him out of a darkness he was dealing with for years.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:29 am to TexasTiger08
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maybe 8 people that actually give a shite about me, that doesn’t include my unborn daughter
A daughter needs her father.
Keep going.
Something good is going to happen.
Get help.
Call 988
Find someone to help. Visit an older person at a nursing home and play checkers once a week.
Talk to those 8-10 people. Find something to help them with. You are needed. Somebody cares.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:32 am to TexasTiger08
Praying that you made it through, bubba. You think this world is hard. Maybe it is time for you to start fearing God, and realize what your eternity is going to look like. God is giving you the gift of a daughter. Waste that at your own peril.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:37 am to TexasTiger08
Where you live, baw?
I’ll get on a plane now to buy you a good lunch/dinner.
There’s still a lot to smile and laugh about in this world.
I’ll get on a plane now to buy you a good lunch/dinner.
There’s still a lot to smile and laugh about in this world.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:49 am to TexasTiger08
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I think I’ve counted maybe 8 people that actually give a shite about me, that doesn’t include my unborn daughter that my cheating and soon-to-be ex-wife will deliver in a few months. If my therapist cares about me, that would make 10 I guess.
It sounds like you’ll shortly have a lot of negativity exiting your life and a whole lot of positivity entering it. Stay the course, you’re on the way out of this and things will get better.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:49 am to TexasTiger08
Children of parents who commit suicide are far more likely to commit suicide. Please don’t put this burden on your innocent daughter.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:50 am to TexasTiger08
The reason that you’re still here IS NOT because you don’t have the ball to harm yourself. It’s because you have the balls NOT to do so. That convinces me that you’ll find a way through this. I can’t say how or when but if you’ve come this far, you’ll find the strength to go the rest of the way.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:50 am to TexasTiger08
You are loved. Seek help. Leaving the people who care about you behind is more damaging to them than you could ever imagine and there is infinite joy in this life that awaits you.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:54 am to TexasTiger08
I see you aren't online right now, but I've been where you are, so I hope you are reading these replies.
Obviously, people that have never even met you care about you and your well-being. You certainly have people that love you, probably more than you know.
Even strong men of faith can be attacked by Satan, and indeed that is almost guaranteed to happen.
I will happily talk to you on the phone or in person.
I absolutely promise you that things will get better, and you have a lot to look forward to.
Obviously, people that have never even met you care about you and your well-being. You certainly have people that love you, probably more than you know.
Even strong men of faith can be attacked by Satan, and indeed that is almost guaranteed to happen.
I will happily talk to you on the phone or in person.
I absolutely promise you that things will get better, and you have a lot to look forward to.
This post was edited on 11/27/23 at 5:55 am
Posted on 11/27/23 at 5:55 am to TexasTiger08
Keep fighting and the storm will pass. Imagine someone is in the hospital right now or some third world country just begging for the opportunities that you currently have.
This post was edited on 11/27/23 at 5:58 am
Posted on 11/27/23 at 6:01 am to TexasTiger08
The holiday season is always harder on your daily struggle to “keep it together”.
Be strong. We are thinking about you.
Be strong. We are thinking about you.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 6:02 am to TexasTiger08
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I feel abandoned by Him.
If God is real and is the author of existence, it’s not possible for him to abandon you.
But remember that he can’t help you to do what is not right. If you turn away from everything that is wrong, you will find God.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 6:17 am to TexasTiger08
Start by doing this - help someone everyday. It will make you feel better about yourself and give you purpose. Now get to it. Report here what you did. I will encourage you. Make a difference, make your daughter proud of her Dad.
You are off to a good start, asking for advice.
You are off to a good start, asking for advice.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 6:18 am to TexasTiger08
Dude, quit being a pussy.
<- not a licensed therapist
<- not a licensed therapist
Posted on 11/27/23 at 6:18 am to TexasTiger08
Funny enough being a history buff has really helped my mental health.
Everything you are going through now, someone else has gone through too. They found a way to push through it and find happiness eventually.
There is nothing new under this sun and you can win this battle, just like they did.
Everything you are going through now, someone else has gone through too. They found a way to push through it and find happiness eventually.
There is nothing new under this sun and you can win this battle, just like they did.
Posted on 11/27/23 at 6:21 am to TexasTiger08
About this time 7 years ago, I was in a dark, dark place. Arguably the worst in my life -- I wasn't too far from where you are right now in the way I felt.
Life isn't perfect, but it's pretty damn good when I think about it. If I could go back and show myself then where he would be 7 years later, he would be damn proud.
Oh, and take this from someone with a newborn baw -- keep going. I never was a big kids person, and i'm still not. BUT, when it's yours, it really is different. I love that little boy more than I thought I was ever capable of loving anyone.
Keep going brother. All the degenerates here are pulling for you.
Life isn't perfect, but it's pretty damn good when I think about it. If I could go back and show myself then where he would be 7 years later, he would be damn proud.
Oh, and take this from someone with a newborn baw -- keep going. I never was a big kids person, and i'm still not. BUT, when it's yours, it really is different. I love that little boy more than I thought I was ever capable of loving anyone.
Keep going brother. All the degenerates here are pulling for you.
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