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We have had the same one since 2019. Still works, in fact I used it this weekend. Bought it from a local medical supply store. We have a handheld mask that looks like a dinosaur.

Only advice is if you're buying from someplace that takes insurance, ask for the cash price. Cash was less than half of the insurance copay for me.
Looking into this option as well. If you have a rec for one you’ve changed out I’m open to that too!
I want the silent, easy to use, less likely to splash, no bubbles filling a water bottle laminar flow. It's really hard to find with the environmental regulations now. Our old one bit the dust.

Specifications beyond laminar flow:
- Mount on the countertop (not wall)
- polished nickel/chrome/stainless finish (not shiny, it wouldn't match the rest of the kitchen...but I'm willing to get it "close" if I can find a good laminar flow)
- All-in-one with stream and sprayer – we do have two holes in the counter. Previously one was used for a soap dispenser, but if the faucet is otherwise great I could be persuaded to put a separate sprayer in the old soap dispenser hole.

If it helps, the sink has two basins, one large and one smaller. So I do need it to move around a bit to hit both sides. As long as it will swing back and forth that isn't likely a problem.

Any suggestions?
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endometriosis


All of this. I was twice mis-diagnosed (by a PCP) with irritable bowel syndrome and medicated with prescriptions for a condition I didn’t have.

Endo is common. But it can’t be diagnosed by anything but surgery, which seems extreme for pain and other symptoms not everyone understands.

I eventually began losing so much blood my OB resorted to a laparoscopy. He apologized after he found it, because pre-surgery he had even hedged with “maybe you need to see a GI.”
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I'm paying ridiculous copays for critical medications for my wife and me.


You have probably looked into stuff like manufacturer assistance programs. If you haven’t, do.

Either way, you might also be able to get an assist by accessing donated meds. Check out this pharmacy nonprofit: LINK

The org collects mint condition unopened prescriptions and patients in need can get them for free. They don’t have controlled prescriptions or things that require refrigeration or anything, but maybe it will be helpful to you. Doesn’t matter if you have insurance. Unaffordable co-pay is reason enough.

re: Youth Sports

Posted by Queen on 3/16/26 at 11:57 am to
We must be on the same volleyball circuit. I get frustrated sometimes, but I don't put my self-worth in the outcome of a child's game. If I do, my kid might do the same thing. If you've so far kept your thoughts to yourself, good for you.

Some people need a break. No grown adult should be bad-mouthing a child line judge bc they don't like the (in my specific example, correct) call. This is not the Olympic trials. If it was, by all means nauseate yourself being nervous. At this point, use it as an opportunity to teach your kid to overcome whatever went wrong.
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I cant help but to feel that this is due to the teachers union.


This is one factor mentioned in the article:
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The state was able to muscle through some changes, in part, because it has weak teachers’ unions, which have traditionally resisted accountability linked to standardized testing.
Your friend may have mentioned this, but OCIA has a period at the beginning called Inquiry. The entire point of it is to ask your questions and discern if you want to move forward with full communion in the Catholic Church. Plenty of people come and go in that portion. I’d suggest you start there for sure.

Some members of my family are southern Baptist. Some are more accepting than others. But in the end, it’s hard for them to argue with the point that you worship the same God, and that driving apart people who believe in the same God and causing them to fight with each other sounds like exactly what the devil would do.
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As a business owner, this has become my single largest overhead expense. More than worker's comp and general liability. And I pay 80% of my employee's premium and some STILL can't afford it.


How many people do you insure, and what’s your structure?

Costs are out of control for sure, but if you’re fully insured by someone like BCBS you may be able to save a lot by self-funding (at least then you’re not paying the insurance company’s profits, having coverage you don’t need, etc). With costs the way they are, even smaller companies can pull this off now.
If you want your son to answer in an honest way that actually follows the assignment ("defend your position") I'd say...

The question of "too much" implies that there is not enough to go around, that one person having more means someone else must have less. But in a truly capitalistic society, that's not the case. The economy, the stock market, the number of businesses – can grow larger.

That simplified foundation doesn't really address questions that could arise related to someone using their "power" dishonestly or something, but that wasn't the prompt.
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I had to help my church with dealing with the FEMA red tape to get reimbursement on roof replacement from Hurricane Ida. The amount of hoops to jump through and the amount of time spent to manage that process was ridiculous. It took almost 2 years to get the reimbursement to go through.


Your church already has a roof?

Mine still has condemned buildings awaiting funding to raze. My kids' school still has tarps on the roof. I'm on a committee dealing with the process for the school, and it's not like they've been sitting around doing nothing since it happened. They're out tens of thousands on mitigation trying to keep it from becoming a total loss while they wait.

From Laura. In 2020.

re: Willamette Valley

Posted by Queen on 5/21/25 at 10:19 pm to
It’s been a while since I went, but we did a wine tour with a guy who was amazing. He had just started up when we went, and now it looks like he has additional tour guides and all.

Backcountry Wine Tours

Will pick you up, drive you around and bring you back to where you’re staying. This could have changed but I doubt it - when we went he only toured small wineries (7500 bottles or less per year). He was super knowledgeable and it was a great experience.

We happened to share a tour with someone who knew a lot about wine. I knew relatively little. And we both had a good time!
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Sudden loss of his 13 year old child. Hence feeling like nothing can possibly convey how sorry I am for his loss.



Grief Groceries

You're right that there probably isn't anything perfect. But this is more practical than another casserole or a plant. With the loss of a child, it may be weeks before they feel up to going anywhere public. They may also not even have it in them to plan their own household's needs. Send something like this, maybe you save them a wave of guilt if they no longer have toothpaste or toilet paper in the house because they haven't thought about it in weeks.

re: Carpenter Bees

Posted by Queen on 4/6/25 at 9:46 pm to
Years ago I read that Pledge lemon spray would keep spiders from building webs in the kids’ playhouses and stuff. I used it periodically and it worked.

In recent years carpenter bees came after our wooden swing set. Like we have a couple big holes in the side now thanks to them. So I tried the lemon Pledge. And it seems to help.

When I notice one flying around I’ll spray the metal connectors, slide, etc. I will spray the wood some. Since I started that I see one or two buzzing around occasionally, but they’ve stopped tearing holes in it at least and don’t stick around long!
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Why is a TDAP required for each pregnancy when the efficacy is 10 years?


To protect the baby, not the mother. Pertussis can kill an infant. It’s why they tell you to make sure the grandparents and all who will be around the baby in the earliest days are up to date on theirs too.
Your problem is probably two things: quantity and number of colors.
- Quantity pricing applies to pretty much everything printed – shirts, branded business swag, Christmas cards.
- Number of colors is a screen printing issue. If you use three colors, your price is higher than if you use one or two.

Barring you finding some kind of clearance sale or something, screen printing is probably not going to be available as cheaply as you want it.

You CAN get shirts, though...if you lower your expectations and DIY. You can get pre-made vinyl iron-ons from Amazon and press them on yourself. Blank t-shirts are cheap. It won't look as nice, and it may not last as long. But your price will be low.
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I’m told from a colleague that they are still being underpaid and trying to get some relief. The PBMs need to be fined big time, on a per claim basis, to prevent this from happening.


Arkansas is doing that now.

LINK

TBD how it plays out, of course, but if they commit the resources it should hopefully start to change the abhorrent practice of spread pricing. At least in Arkansas.

Some here may have followed the attempt at federal PBM regulation late last year, which went nowhere because it was tied to the failed budget bill for reasons. ??
Did you sell before Arkansas passed the PBM rule requiring they pay all pharmacies acquisition cost + fair and reasonable profit?

LINK

It was temporary but recently made permanent. And the big PBMs are facing something like $1.5M in fines for underpaying.

I’m curious to see how it plays out in terms of better conditions and ultimately fewer independent closures.

re: Christmas tree donation (artificial)

Posted by Queen on 11/27/24 at 10:05 pm to
Junior League might want it. The one in my area will take prelits that don’t light up anymore, etc. They repurpose for holiday market decor.
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we’d have to change out his litter daily because he goes so often


Sign of kidney problems. Mine had the same issue, in fact she started missing the box and went all over the floor. Vet said she could no longer concentrate her urine.

As others said, eventually they stop eating. I gave mine tuna fish and wet cat food toward the end. She ate it happily at first and perked up for a little while. But it only helped for a few weeks before she stopped eating that too.

I made the call when I realized she was suffering. Found her laying next to a pile of vomit because she didn’t have the strength to walk away after she did it. When just living is that difficult, the humane thing is the right thing. But not the easiest.