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The Whole Brain Child

Pretty quick read. I got it from the library. Very helpful at understanding where kids are in their development so you can adjust accordingly and maybe also avoid some fights over the rules along the way.

re: Realtors using AI pictures

Posted by Queen on 7/23/26 at 10:13 am to
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I refuse to use AI generated shite for my advertising


The graphics all look the same. Bad.

re: Why is hospital food so awful?

Posted by Queen on 7/20/26 at 9:19 am to
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It's purposefully bland and low in sodium.


I use very little salt at home, no salted butter or anything. I use a lot of herbs and other things to provide flavor, though.

Spent a week in the hospital. Nutritionist came in to ask for feedback. I wasn't on any special diet, so she said if I wanted better food I should ask my family/friends to bring some in. I lived on that.

Cooking without salt doesn't have to mean cooking without flavor, but they manage it.
Why not send potential jurors options for the week(s) they serve? That way you’d have far fewer people with scheduling issues.

I once got called and was going to be out of the country when they wanted me to report. I’d gladly have served if I’d been allowed to defer even just a week or a month. Instead my only option was to ask to be let out.
We have had the same one since 2019. Still works, in fact I used it this weekend. Bought it from a local medical supply store. We have a handheld mask that looks like a dinosaur.

Only advice is if you're buying from someplace that takes insurance, ask for the cash price. Cash was less than half of the insurance copay for me.
Looking into this option as well. If you have a rec for one you’ve changed out I’m open to that too!
I want the silent, easy to use, less likely to splash, no bubbles filling a water bottle laminar flow. It's really hard to find with the environmental regulations now. Our old one bit the dust.

Specifications beyond laminar flow:
- Mount on the countertop (not wall)
- polished nickel/chrome/stainless finish (not shiny, it wouldn't match the rest of the kitchen...but I'm willing to get it "close" if I can find a good laminar flow)
- All-in-one with stream and sprayer – we do have two holes in the counter. Previously one was used for a soap dispenser, but if the faucet is otherwise great I could be persuaded to put a separate sprayer in the old soap dispenser hole.

If it helps, the sink has two basins, one large and one smaller. So I do need it to move around a bit to hit both sides. As long as it will swing back and forth that isn't likely a problem.

Any suggestions?
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endometriosis


All of this. I was twice mis-diagnosed (by a PCP) with irritable bowel syndrome and medicated with prescriptions for a condition I didn’t have.

Endo is common. But it can’t be diagnosed by anything but surgery, which seems extreme for pain and other symptoms not everyone understands.

I eventually began losing so much blood my OB resorted to a laparoscopy. He apologized after he found it, because pre-surgery he had even hedged with “maybe you need to see a GI.”
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I'm paying ridiculous copays for critical medications for my wife and me.


You have probably looked into stuff like manufacturer assistance programs. If you haven’t, do.

Either way, you might also be able to get an assist by accessing donated meds. Check out this pharmacy nonprofit: LINK

The org collects mint condition unopened prescriptions and patients in need can get them for free. They don’t have controlled prescriptions or things that require refrigeration or anything, but maybe it will be helpful to you. Doesn’t matter if you have insurance. Unaffordable co-pay is reason enough.

re: Youth Sports

Posted by Queen on 3/16/26 at 11:57 am to
We must be on the same volleyball circuit. I get frustrated sometimes, but I don't put my self-worth in the outcome of a child's game. If I do, my kid might do the same thing. If you've so far kept your thoughts to yourself, good for you.

Some people need a break. No grown adult should be bad-mouthing a child line judge bc they don't like the (in my specific example, correct) call. This is not the Olympic trials. If it was, by all means nauseate yourself being nervous. At this point, use it as an opportunity to teach your kid to overcome whatever went wrong.
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I cant help but to feel that this is due to the teachers union.


This is one factor mentioned in the article:
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The state was able to muscle through some changes, in part, because it has weak teachers’ unions, which have traditionally resisted accountability linked to standardized testing.
Your friend may have mentioned this, but OCIA has a period at the beginning called Inquiry. The entire point of it is to ask your questions and discern if you want to move forward with full communion in the Catholic Church. Plenty of people come and go in that portion. I’d suggest you start there for sure.

Some members of my family are southern Baptist. Some are more accepting than others. But in the end, it’s hard for them to argue with the point that you worship the same God, and that driving apart people who believe in the same God and causing them to fight with each other sounds like exactly what the devil would do.
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As a business owner, this has become my single largest overhead expense. More than worker's comp and general liability. And I pay 80% of my employee's premium and some STILL can't afford it.


How many people do you insure, and what’s your structure?

Costs are out of control for sure, but if you’re fully insured by someone like BCBS you may be able to save a lot by self-funding (at least then you’re not paying the insurance company’s profits, having coverage you don’t need, etc). With costs the way they are, even smaller companies can pull this off now.
If you want your son to answer in an honest way that actually follows the assignment ("defend your position") I'd say...

The question of "too much" implies that there is not enough to go around, that one person having more means someone else must have less. But in a truly capitalistic society, that's not the case. The economy, the stock market, the number of businesses – can grow larger.

That simplified foundation doesn't really address questions that could arise related to someone using their "power" dishonestly or something, but that wasn't the prompt.
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I had to help my church with dealing with the FEMA red tape to get reimbursement on roof replacement from Hurricane Ida. The amount of hoops to jump through and the amount of time spent to manage that process was ridiculous. It took almost 2 years to get the reimbursement to go through.


Your church already has a roof?

Mine still has condemned buildings awaiting funding to raze. My kids' school still has tarps on the roof. I'm on a committee dealing with the process for the school, and it's not like they've been sitting around doing nothing since it happened. They're out tens of thousands on mitigation trying to keep it from becoming a total loss while they wait.

From Laura. In 2020.

re: Willamette Valley

Posted by Queen on 5/21/25 at 10:19 pm to
It’s been a while since I went, but we did a wine tour with a guy who was amazing. He had just started up when we went, and now it looks like he has additional tour guides and all.

Backcountry Wine Tours

Will pick you up, drive you around and bring you back to where you’re staying. This could have changed but I doubt it - when we went he only toured small wineries (7500 bottles or less per year). He was super knowledgeable and it was a great experience.

We happened to share a tour with someone who knew a lot about wine. I knew relatively little. And we both had a good time!
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Sudden loss of his 13 year old child. Hence feeling like nothing can possibly convey how sorry I am for his loss.



Grief Groceries

You're right that there probably isn't anything perfect. But this is more practical than another casserole or a plant. With the loss of a child, it may be weeks before they feel up to going anywhere public. They may also not even have it in them to plan their own household's needs. Send something like this, maybe you save them a wave of guilt if they no longer have toothpaste or toilet paper in the house because they haven't thought about it in weeks.

re: Carpenter Bees

Posted by Queen on 4/6/25 at 9:46 pm to
Years ago I read that Pledge lemon spray would keep spiders from building webs in the kids’ playhouses and stuff. I used it periodically and it worked.

In recent years carpenter bees came after our wooden swing set. Like we have a couple big holes in the side now thanks to them. So I tried the lemon Pledge. And it seems to help.

When I notice one flying around I’ll spray the metal connectors, slide, etc. I will spray the wood some. Since I started that I see one or two buzzing around occasionally, but they’ve stopped tearing holes in it at least and don’t stick around long!
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Why is a TDAP required for each pregnancy when the efficacy is 10 years?


To protect the baby, not the mother. Pertussis can kill an infant. It’s why they tell you to make sure the grandparents and all who will be around the baby in the earliest days are up to date on theirs too.