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re: How should I proceed?

Posted by Tiger Bandit1 on 12/22/15 at 4:30 pm to
Add her on FB. A day or two later, message her, " nice meeting you the other night" or something generic like that, if she keeps the convo going, she's interested. If not, try again in a day or two.
Not ugly or poor. Guess I'll just go all in.

We have gone out on dates, we've hooked up a few times, sent her flowers on Friday, had sex on Saturday, just not sure if either of us are ready to fully commit. Which is another reason I don't want to be too honest. First girl I'm interested in since my ex wife. Don't know if I really want to grab the first one and hang on or play the field for a bit. So the the texting etiquette is more for future possibilities.
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One would think you would be uninterested in playing games then. I see why your wife left you.


I am uninterested in playing games, but you have to play a little bit. Obviously you don't know me, so I don't blame you for thinking that. It's not true but, still can't blame you.

I prefer phone calls over text but she lives out in the country and has poor service. The phone calls just don't work that well.

The first time I met her I was newly separated and came off creepy as frick, it's taken some time to get past that. I just assumed that being very honest was the way to go and I've found out that too much honesty is a very bad thing.
Yeah, probably not going to spell those out every time. Anything else?
I am newly divorced and trying to get back in the game after roughly ten years. My buddies tell me that if a girl that u like texts u, the general rule is to take 15-20 minutes to respond. When she replies, if it took her 10 minutes, u are supposed to wait 20 minutes to reply back. This seems a little silly but so far it seems to work. Is this standard practice for most people these days?