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re: Why are guys not able to see a cheater?

Posted on 10/28/15 at 3:27 pm to
Posted by Flocka Tiger
In These Streets
Member since Dec 2014
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Posted on 10/28/15 at 3:27 pm to
Damn, that kind of reminds me of the scene in Old School.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16979 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 3:30 pm to
That is so cool.
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 3:50 pm to
The only cool thing about it was I confirmed my suspicion. But that was a little more than I expected. I had an unhealthy obsession in catching her and took on the role of private eye. This was just before cellphones and social media. That was not the first time I tried to catch her in the act but she was always one step ahead of me. I got to where I wanted to confirm my suspicion more than I wanted to be wrong. I just learned that if you get that certain girl who flirts with and seems to know a ton of guy friends while having few girlfriends, she is likely a whore.

Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 10/28/15 at 3:52 pm to
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The only cool thing about it was I confirmed my suspicion. But that was a little more than I expected. I had an unhealthy obsession in catching her and took on the role of private eye. This was just before cellphones and social media. That was not the first time I tried to catch her in the act but she was always one step ahead of me. I got to where I wanted to confirm my suspicion more than I wanted to be wrong. I just learned that if you get that certain girl who flirts with and seems to know a ton of guy friends while having few girlfriends, she is likely a whore.
Ok, so answer me this. Why did she stay with you? Was it some kinda mind game for her?
Posted by Mung
Ba’on Rooj
Member since Aug 2007
9137 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 3:55 pm to
honest trusting people believe that others are like them, honest and trustworthy.

lying cheaters are the same.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16979 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:06 pm to
How did you not busy up the party? It would have freak everyone out. You could have jumped out and said, "mind if I join in?" What would have been even cooler would've been if you did.
Posted by LSUvegasbombed
Red Stick
Member since Sep 2013
15464 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:06 pm to
maybe to fill the lonely void when she didnt have a gang bang or other dude nailing her
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:08 pm to
Definitely a mind game for her. She was a sociopath IMO. I found out that about 50% of her life story was either embellished or pure make believe. How deep into their own lies does a normal person dive that they would allot time to wait in a college building and carry around a backpack...multiple times a week? Her mother died of breast cancer until I found out her mother was alive and healthy. In her eyes, she was not cognizant of "staying" with me. I was only a compartment in her overall web of deceit. When in that compartment, she was committed to our relationship. But a sociopath like her has many compartments and many realities. She stepped out of one and into the other with extreme craftiness.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16979 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:08 pm to
There are sexual needs and then there are sexual needs.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
294755 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:13 pm to
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Not me. I'm just saying you don't always know because they lie. Or you don't want or need to know.






Many are narcissistic sociopaths and are extremely effective at spinning a yarn.
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
77008 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:17 pm to
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What wife has a drinking buddy?


Mine does. But she's been cheating for years.
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10728 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:18 pm to
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How deep into their own lies does a normal person dive


Pretty fricking deep.

I dated a girl that was a consummate habitual liar. She told everyone she was dying from brain cancer for frick's sakes. She played us all for over 3 years. When I finally busted her in her lies, her house of cards came crashing down and it turned out well over 70% of her life was a lie.

Her friend and I figured it out and couldn't believe it. We outed her to the circle of friends and she had to completely change her life. She lost all her friends, quit her biggest hobby/lifestyle (bike racing) and disappeared.

fricking crazy count.
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:18 pm to
Knowing what I know now, I would have but back then I was just pissed to find out that not only was she cheating on me but she was a dishrag slut getting gang banged.

My good friend and store manager RB tried to give me advice before all this went down. He was around my age now (45) at the time and told me to don't get caught up in her own any girl at my age. Just enjoy the pussy and chill out on the exclusivity shite. I had to learn for myself.
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10728 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:20 pm to
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Dick Leverage


I assume you went directly to the clinic and got tested for every STD known to man?
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
77008 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:22 pm to
It's not normal for humans to be monogamous for life. It's a religious construct that, like most religious constructs, don't conform to reality.
Posted by BabyrayS2k
Member since Nov 2012
778 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:29 pm to
Two thumbs up. Would read again.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16979 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:31 pm to
One fact I find very interesting about cheating. The male emits more sperm when he is cheating.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133140 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:38 pm to
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Many are narcissistic sociopaths and are extremely effective at spinning a yarn.



Yup. Had a lady friend meet me for drinks one day. I was going through some rough stuff. She told me her BF and her had split up that weeks. Bought a few rounds (turns out it was on his card). Went back to my place. Knocked the bottom out. She was an absolute freak. Liked being choked and talked dirty to. Ain't gonna lie...it was a lot of fun.

Next week she posted that she was engaged.

I got an invite to the wedding.

The story gets even more interesting from there...
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16979 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 4:54 pm to

Go on...
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 10/28/15 at 5:01 pm to
Okay. You have our attention. Proceed.
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