re: What happens when you meet someone who lives on the opposite side of the world?

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They been thru all of the issues that a long distance relationship has and they have decided to get married, live in their own countries until their children are drown

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... That might be the most unfortunate typo or failed autocorrect I've ever read on here in some time.

To the OP, whether it's love at first sight or a brief relationship that became unusually intense (whether based on passion or that I feel like I've known you my whole life/open/comfortable feeling), it's still a gamble as to the whether things will work out.

It's definitely possible, but the odds are always less than 50%...

1) The magic almost always fades because most people lose focus or become distracted over time. That might seem a funny way to say it, but it may be the best way to broadly state it. Perhaps it would be an issue of focusing on your job to the point you don't realize your career is the center of your life instead of your girl... It could be anything, though, including simple, time-consuming bad habits that might re-assert themselves after the initial rush of relationship settles and you can't ignore the world around you anymore.

2) People too often romanticize these moments-- which eventually leads to feeling disappointed. If you expect magic for the rest of your life in a way that isn't realistic, you're more likely to fail. The people who succeed seem to have better perspective and balance... In truth, this is a variation of point #1.

... Anyway, true love is great and if you think you've found it, why not try to make it work if at all possible-- even if it means one of you has to totally give up everything back home? Don't be under any illusions that the world isn't going to make it hard. But give it serious thought and if there's a realistic way to get together with the girl, then what's stopping you? That's the question you need to consider.

Sounds like OP is trying to get reasons to buy his bride.